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Hey yal.. I have been having a rough 3-4 days.. Between Steve problems and school problems. I'll tell ya ll more about the trouble tomorrow but I was wondering I know you guys arent all one religion or naything but can yall be thinking about me. Last week a friend of mine died and now steve scared the shit ou t of me this weekened and im like fialig math. Its just been kinda hard. Thanks a lot
peace and trees
~Andy
Why are you wearing that stupid man suit?
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Andy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm sorry to hear about your friend. And I was never very good in math either, the VP at our school tutored me, and it helped but I still don't get it! Good luck and hang in there! If you want to talk you know how to find me;-) 
*hugs tight*
Danielle
"To the world you may be but one person, but to one person you may be the world!"
"Some people love you and some hate you.. those who hate don't know what they're missing and they're missing out!"
"Never underestimate your power to change yo
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trevor
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Hmm, need a huggle icon . . .
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Steve
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Really getting into it |
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oh andy ... would it be okay if i lit a little white votive for you? positive light and thoughts. please IM if you ever need, okay? *hugs for you, and a forehead kiss*
my void does not want.
-- 2.13.61.
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With all that going on, one botched math test should be allowed for and overlooked.
Hang in there, Andy. You have so many people here who always keep you fondly in their thoughts.
We do not remember days...we remember moments.
Cesare Pavese
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Thoughts and good positive energy coming your way...but you knew that already, I think!
"Always forgive your enemies...nothing annoys them quite so much." Oscar Wilde
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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who needs a religion commonality to think good thoughts. You got 'em
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Thinkin bout ya big time You know I'll help you if I can. smith
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I just know you will bounce back. And you have my support and any help that it is in my power to give.
Love and Happiness to you,
Kevin
"Be excellent to each other, and, party on dudes"!
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hey all. *hugs* I just got home from tortuing my body at gymnastics for an hour and I wanna thank yall. Umm yeah so I think I will be seeing Steve on Saturday and we will see how it goes... No strings attached really we are going to go on like a 6 mile hike. The last few days he said some stuff online to me when we were talking that I have still not forgiven him for. Like he said that I never show him any feeling except for anger, (which I know isn't true since I am rarely angry at him). He also accused me of never thinking or caring about him. To which my sudden worry about his saftey (since he told me he was hardly eating) was surprisngly nice, but slightly out of place. I dunno he's 6'ft 195 lbs and feels that he needs to lose 40 lbs. I'm sorry but 40 pounds puts him at 155 and my brother who is half his size (bone structure wise) weighs that much. It's not that he's fat or anything he is just big he's built sorta like a football player, with wide shoulders ya know. So yeah twice in two days now he has made me cry and I am not happy with him at all. Well thanks everyone.
peace and trees
~Andy
Why are you wearing that stupid man suit?
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The anger he is exhibiting now could be because he is angry with himself. Because he does not fit the image he thinks he should be. Plus if he has already started trying to lose the weight, he may be starving himself, which also will cause irritability.
What he needs now is a good friend to convince him that he is just fine the way he is. That you love him (all of him) as he is now. His self esteem right now is very shakey and any little thing can cause more anger. Use that charm and pixiness (my impression of you) that you so willing let us see.
So hang in there, and yell if you need help.
Triple hugs, Charlie
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irritibility, and the warped way one sees their own self begins to bleed out into daily perceptions. you say you've never shown him anger, but he says you're angry at him a lot; i'm quite sure you're not, but when someone starts to starve themselves it all .. just .. changes. we go into defense mode because we're used to having to defend actions (starving, or "you can't really think you need to lose..." "no, no i don't, i wasn't being serious, lay off..."), and i'm fairly certain that he didn't mean to hurt you by what he said. it's never intentional ... it just isn't. unfortunately finding bones burn many bridges; some that can't be built again.
don't give up on him, okay? nothing hurts worse than .. well. don't let it become detrimental to you and your well being, of course, but just be there for him. i know where he's coming from. therefore i don't think his anger is intentional -- NOT at you. not you. charlie's right -- be gentle, but let him know he's fine the way he is. don't force it though, because that can backfire quicker than most think. show in actions, not words.
i'm here if you ever need. hugs.
my void does not want.
-- 2.13.61.
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