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icon7.gif New behavioral rules in place .......  [message #15464] Fri, 26 September 2003 17:35 Go to next message
kevin is currently offline  kevin

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At least that is what I think we are all trying for here.

How about we also make an effort to end the negativity of some of our replies. I believe Marc made a post about the thumbs down symbol as well as the exclamation pount in the red circle. Seemed like a good idea to me.

While these might be required from time to time, I don't believe we need to make a habit out of using them. Whether we agree or disagree I am positive that we can all make an effort to at least be somewhat constructive with our remarks. That way, someone might actually benefit from our words.

Just a thought,

Kevin



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Re: New behavioral rules in place .......  [message #15472 is a reply to message #15464] Fri, 26 September 2003 18:17 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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psssst. There is a "u" in "behavioural! ~giggles~

That detracts a liitle from the worthy point you make.

In general the "!" is best used for a genuine factual correction, or an important note. It should not signify that the poster is important, bu that the content of the post is worthy of serious viewing. So it should be used sparingly.

The "thumbs down" is more awkward. I believe it depends on the context. I'll try to illustrate by two examples below, one acceptable and th eother not.



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icon13.gif You are WRONG!  [message #15473 is a reply to message #15472] Fri, 26 September 2003 18:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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You're always wrong, and I will always disagree with you. You're an imbecile.

[strident and made more strident by the icon. In additon the perosnal attack makes it totally unacceptable]



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icon13.gif I don't agree, I'll tell you what I mean  [message #15474 is a reply to message #15472] Fri, 26 September 2003 18:21 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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When you say that, I think you have probably overlooked the following. yadda yadda yadda.

[Sensibly worded, polite, no attack. One might comment onthe downpointed thumb, but one might also view it as a simple device signifying disagreement expressed rationally.]



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icon4.gif Perhaps I should have been more specific .......  [message #15475 is a reply to message #15472] Fri, 26 September 2003 18:25 Go to previous messageGo to next message
kevin is currently offline  kevin

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hehe. I think I should have said that in a more specific way but I was a little weary of seeming to be accusatory.

BTW thanks for the typing correctoion hehe (I am leaving that one in) ::-)

Have a great day, and many Hugs to you,

Kevin



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icon6.gif double pssst pssst !!  [message #15481 is a reply to message #15472] Fri, 26 September 2003 19:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I found the neatest site that shows American/British differences in words, spellings and completely different words:

http://www.geocities.com/Athens/Atlantis/2284/

a pencil eraser is a rubber? Surprised

ps.....in Americanese, it's behavioral.

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icon6.gif Re: double pssst pssst !!  [message #15485 is a reply to message #15481] Fri, 26 September 2003 20:04 Go to previous messageGo to next message
robert bryce is currently offline  robert bryce

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Now you got me all confused--do the Britts use erasuers as rubbers????? rob
It's more of a plug i think.....  [message #15486 is a reply to message #15485] Fri, 26 September 2003 20:11 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Talking of rubbers...  [message #15527 is a reply to message #15481] Fri, 26 September 2003 22:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
nick is currently offline  nick

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Apparently in Australia, "Durex" is a brand of adhesive tape. In Britain we would usually call it "Sellotape". I think Americans tend to say "Scotch tape".

Of course in Britain the word Durex means something entirely different!
icon6.gif Re: Talking of rubbers...  [message #15585 is a reply to message #15527] Sun, 28 September 2003 12:31 Go to previous message
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lets see if i got this right-aussies use durex for rubbers????.rob
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