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OMG , i went out on a DATE!!!!!!!!! Yeah.....  [message #16514] Mon, 13 October 2003 06:39 Go to next message
M is currently offline  M

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Boy did i had fun today. It was a day i will never forget.

Well to tell you some background story, i have being talking to this guy for a while through e-mail and messagers. We got to know things about ourselves using this methods. I knew he lived on LA and close to me but i was just kind of afraid to meet him. You never know what a person is like.
Well to solve the curiousity , we decided to talk on the phone and i got to hear his voice and he got to hear mine. It was when i convinced my self he was my age so it became more ok to meet in person. Today was the day we decided to meet.

We decided to meet at our school as i found he attended my old middle school. We attended the same school without knowing about it. We set up to meet at 12:00 pm and then go somewhere else. As i was riding there , i was so nerveous because i did not what he looked like. I was going through all does question about wether he would like me or not. Time was getting closer and started feeling my heart pumpying hard because there was only a few blocks to walk. When i got there, he was there with some of his friends. I scare as thought what they were doing there. I found out he open to his friends and they know he is gay. They were just there to make sure who i was. Good friends looking out for their friend. As for me, no one knows i'm gay or even suspect, so i kind admire that in him and also jaleous because he friends are cool about him being gay. I have no idea how my friends would take it. Anyways , he finally said good bye to his friends and we started walking.

He was a little taller than me, my age ( 16 ) , favorite color is green so he had a lot of green artifacts on him. He was cute and he thought the same about me ( a good sign of you ask me ). So we headed to Universal City Walk and we talked all the way through. He was a funny , very out going kind of guy. When we got there, we decided to a see a movie. We saw "The House of Dead" Nice scary movie. It was great as i could have him close to me in the scary parts. After the movie we decided to go eat something a got to talked more and more. we spoke about everything. Then we left city walk to head back to LA and went to some arcade so we could play some games. He beat me in the fighting games, however no one can beat me on the racing games. We had fun there. The after , we dicided to go some place quiet and just be there together. We just lay there, just looking up at the sunset as the sun was starting to go down in LA. It was just us two there ( sort of like a park ) nobody else to bother us. I could believe i had spend already like almost 5 hours with this guy. Time goes by so quick when you are with someone you like. In case you are wondering , what happened between us there , alone, yes i have to admit that we did kiss. It felt so good, it felt like the right thing to do as we both wanted to do it. Don't worry that is the only thing we did although if you ask me i wanted more ( sorry i was just to0 excited ). Then it was time to head back home as it was greating late.

I got home like at 9 pm . In my moms language that is like getting home at about 3 in the morning. But i told her the truth , where i was and everything but left the little detail i was with another guy who was gay. I got home still dreaming about this guy. He was great. We are defecntly going to meet each other again during the week as he lives somewhat close to me. Wow , i still can believe i went out on a date.

Sorry for the grammar as i wrote this too quick and did not have time to check it. I just wanted it to shares this with you guys as nobody know who i am and i can't really talk to my friends about this.

For now , i'm going to sleep, i have a lot to think about tonight.



You don't love someone because they are beautiful, they are beautiful because you love them.
icon14.gif Re: OMG , i went out on a DATE!!!!!!!!! Yeah.....  [message #16515 is a reply to message #16514] Mon, 13 October 2003 06:53 Go to previous messageGo to next message
robert bryce is currently offline  robert bryce

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way to go guy,I wish you every happiness...Please take time to be friends first,that is the best way..friends are for ever!!!!!!!!..rob..Very Happy Wink
Re: OMG , i went out on a DATE!!!!!!!!! Yeah.....  [message #16516 is a reply to message #16514] Mon, 13 October 2003 09:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
david in hong kong is currently offline  david in hong kong

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I was thinking that this was the week-end that you were going to meet him...and you did!!

Wheeeeeee!!!!!

I'm sooo happy that it went well. As you keep getting to know him, there's really nothing better than to learn about another person's heart and mind...and body, of course. Glad the kissing was good!:-* :-* And you may even get to be friuends with some of his friends, too, which is another added bonus, right?

You'll know when to take it further than the kissing...::-)

Thanks for telling us all about it! We're all rooting for you!



"Always forgive your enemies...nothing annoys them quite so much." Oscar Wilde
icon7.gif Re: OMG , i went out on a DATE!!!!!!!!! Yeah.....  [message #16518 is a reply to message #16515] Mon, 13 October 2003 11:27 Go to previous messageGo to next message
tony is currently offline  tony

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hey i am happy for you. i hope your next date goes as well. just a word of caution, just because he has some understanding friends don't go outing yourself too soon. make sure it is what you want to do first. please be careful and have as much fun as you can.
tony:-)
icon7.gif That's super cool.  [message #16520 is a reply to message #16514] Mon, 13 October 2003 11:49 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

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It's great to hear it went well. You got to kiss your cute guy too, which is more than what I can say. Smile Good luck to you for the future, just take things one step at a time. Don't rush things too quickly even though you might want to, do it at a pace you both can handle because if you get out of synch you stand to lose more than the hurrying gained you.

Remember, desire is a sweet thing. Some things really are worth waiting for until it's just right. Maybe you two are comfortable enough to not have to wait that long to decide where you want to go together; there's little point in waiting just for the sake of it. Just saying careful, deliberate steps are better than headlessly rushing ahead. Smile

Okies. Enough babbling from me. Wow, isn't the internet a great thing huh? Smile You kids are sooooo privileged. I really hope you understand that...


-L



"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."

-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
Re: OMG , i went out on a DATE!!!!!!!!! Yeah.....  [message #16521 is a reply to message #16514] Mon, 13 October 2003 12:30 Go to previous messageGo to next message
mg_zidane is currently offline  mg_zidane

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You know M,
I kinda know what it feels like
...about REALLY wanting to say something-
but then, you can't say it because you can't tell anyone- not even your friends!

And when I found this MB, man, did it feel really great. Sad)
So just keep on posting about all the wonderful things happening around you!

Dates are sometimes pretty scary, if you ask me- especially if you don't know who the person you're meeting up with is or what he's like. Glad it worked really well for you! ;-D And you got to kiss your guy too!

Wow... the picture you described with you and him at the park, watching the sunset is just so... romantic! Smile



"The worst way of missing someone is to be sitting right next to them knowing you can't have them." To Stephen Tsang, wherever you are.
Re: Thanks guys  [message #16539 is a reply to message #16521] Tue, 14 October 2003 05:12 Go to previous messageGo to next message
M is currently offline  M

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Yes i understand , i know my limits and i know how far i can go. I think is great this guy is open to his friends and they accept him the way he is. As for me , i don't see myslef ever telling my friends about me. I have seen their reactions about gay i don't like what i see.

It is great i found this place , a place where i can share this type of things. I wish i knew someone personally so i could tell them all this stuff but most of the time i just keep them to myself.

Thank so much/



You don't love someone because they are beautiful, they are beautiful because you love them.
icon6.gif Hehe, it's cool, man.  [message #16540 is a reply to message #16539] Tue, 14 October 2003 07:20 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

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Glad you like it here. Smile Anyway, can't you make this guy's friends your friends too (eventually) you think? If you two 'click', just hang out with his group more... That should work, shouldn't it?

Anyway, take care man and good luck. Wow, kissing on the first date that's AWESOME.


-L



"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."

-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
Re: OMG , i went out on a DATE!!!!!!!!! Yeah.....  [message #16545 is a reply to message #16514] Tue, 14 October 2003 14:56 Go to previous message
kevin is currently offline  kevin

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That is just awsome. I hope your next date goes as well as that one.

Keep smiling.

Kevin

::-) ::-)



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