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Please help me here.
Why is it so much harder to face the death of someone I love dearly, than to face my own?
I would give myself to change a future I know is coming, but I cannot.
Why does this hurt so much?
Even now, I am taking a long long time to type this .
It hurts so much. am i weak?
why can't I cope with it
my baby
what shoule I do?
kkevijnkj,m
"Be excellent to each other, and, party on dudes"!
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Because they become part of our lives.
Because they are who we know, when we see someone every morning,
or most of the time, that is what we expect...
That is how we live... That is part of us, as human beings.
This is so hard for me to write as well...
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-Met liefe, eendje
You said when you'd die that you'd walk with me every day
And I'd start to cry and say please don't talk that way
With the blink of an eye the Lord came and asked you to meet
You went to a better place but He stole you away from me
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marc
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Registered: March 2003
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Love has a way of bringing out a selflessness in us that makes it hard to loose a loved one. Many times we feel like we would be ready and willing to do, say, give anything to make things diffrent.
Kevin, I know how hard it is to let go. I don't want this to come out the wrong way so please take it with a grain of salt. Every creature great and small has a time here with us. That time is finite. I know it doesn't take away one tiny speck of the hurt within you. I wish I could.
I know what you are distressed about. I know how it hurts to even think about it but you have to. There comes a point where your need to have your baby with you must ebb to the kindness of allowing her pain to stop.
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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because often, we put other people before ourselves, and so naturally they become more important to us than ourselves are. and so, naturally, when they have to leave us, or when they die (be it suddenly or expected and creeping), it hurts far more than the thought of our own selves dying.
kevin, i'm here for you if you need, if you'd let me. my cell is on, i don't care what time it is. they become more important to us than many things, and they are forever unconditional and never judge us. i know what you're dealing with because i've been there, too.
hugs for you and yours,
h.
my void does not want.
-- 2.13.61.
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