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tony is currently offline  tony

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Hey folks
This may be a strange question but if you had the chance to live your life over, how many of you would change the way the world sees you. By that I mean if you lived as an open gay person would you change that or if you stayed in the closet would you have come out instead and why do you think the other way would have been better.
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icon7.gif If I'd had the chance to live my life again...  [message #20101 is a reply to message #20100] Wed, 10 March 2004 20:05 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

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I would have punched some guys in the nose, and kissed some guys on the lips. Smile Not sure if I'd been more 'out' now, that's too difficult to say, but I'd definitely been more 'out' to those of my friends I were close to when I was younger.


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david in hong kong is currently offline  david in hong kong

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I grew up in the 50's and 60's in a rural area of New England near the Canadian border. So I didn't have a clue about what healthy gay life could mean, and didn't even realize that's what I was until I was in college.

So the first thing I'd change about my early life is a greater awareness for myself!

Not sure what changes that would have produced in who else knew, etc. Fun to think about tho. Thanks for the thought!


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