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i won't get into TOO explicit detail...  [message #20939] Mon, 24 May 2004 11:53 Go to next message
misplaced is currently offline  misplaced

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but it's mildly explicit, or probably "gross" to others. so that is a warning intro and you don't have to read further if you're not interested in trans passing devices!!









because i don't think many here really WANT to know about these kinds of details, but i don't feel comfortable squealing about it anywhere else.

i found a site geared toward the non-hormone/surgical FTM. it's got everything you need for passing for the sake of say, urinals and close but non sexual contact. so i think you know what uh, "device" i speak of.

different sizes and colours. and i'm stuck in this awfully FUNNY spot of, "do i go for dream size or do i be realistic," and probably i will be realistic, except ... ehehehehe. my experiences in the past leave me pretty distorted, size-wise. at any rate i am thinking 4 or 5 inches. does that sound right?

it also comes with another little device, although you must pay extra. obviously this first one is going to be soft-like, the only "firmness" is the tube that runs through it for the sake of urinals. but the second one is nearly hard, however, can still be "tucked" so it doesn't appear you're walking around with a hard-on until you want it ehm, "out" if you will. but it's for that spot of time between no contact and actual sexual contact, where touching might occur but nothing too out there. although you'd hope you'd have informed whoever you're with that something is up, unless you want your teeth knocked out. gotta love the town *i* live in.

but anyway i'm just ... excited. because it's not that expensive at all, and this way i CAN have the best of it and feel more like ME without chemically/hormonally altering my body which would make EVERYTHING more obvious than a haircut/posture/clothes change (which some of you have gotten to see); without a surgery i can't afford, and most importantly without running the risk of losing my daughter.

i just wonder how i'd keep it in place while skating.... Surprised Mad ::-)



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icon7.gif Just so you know, whatever you decide, I'll be with you, k?  [message #20940 is a reply to message #20939] Mon, 24 May 2004 13:50 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lenny is currently offline  lenny

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Re: i won't get into TOO explicit detail...  [message #20942 is a reply to message #20939] Mon, 24 May 2004 17:53 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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and the web address is what?

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icon7.gif sorry!  [message #20943 is a reply to message #20942] Mon, 24 May 2004 17:58 Go to previous messageGo to next message
misplaced is currently offline  misplaced

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i wasn't sure anyone would want to SEE it.

the link where i've learnt about the actual piece is:
http://djknowsdicks.com/index.html

it goes into all sorts of specifics, and how to wear, use, clean it. then there is this place to make your own....
http://members.tripod.com/friffboy/id52.htm

finally, the first site i ever found when i began my internet exploring of all these things, transster.com -- it shows photographs of surgeries: and some are very greusome (specifically those willing to have skin grafted from their forarms or thighs to create more length), while others are very interesting.

-l.



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erk, sent too soon --  [message #20944 is a reply to message #20943] Mon, 24 May 2004 18:00 Go to previous messageGo to next message
misplaced is currently offline  misplaced

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-- transster.com covers both top and bottom surgeries. i'm lucky enough that i don't need top surgery, really; binding has worked just fine, i use ace bandages and they don't itch, nor are they uncomfortable. on days i'm too lazy to wrap i just use a size-smaller sports bra.



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Get two and wear them on alternate days!  [message #20946 is a reply to message #20943] Mon, 24 May 2004 20:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
saben is currently offline  saben

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Be 4" one day and 8" the next, that way you'll appear to all kinds of men Sad) I guess size just depends on your target audience, too, do you want people going "aww, how cute! the perfect mouthful" or "jeez, what a monster! I'm not sure I can manage that"?



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icon6.gif ROFL AGAIN!  [message #20949 is a reply to message #20946] Mon, 24 May 2004 20:39 Go to previous messageGo to next message
misplaced is currently offline  misplaced

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i honestly don't know. if i were to have an audience just doubletake, like "i thought that MIGHT have been a chick except not, but when we were dancing there was definitely something IN THERE...." i'd be happy.

probably i'll start out with 4" because i have to get accustomed to walking around with it, sitting/standing without groping myself to readjust (except i DO see guys do that... Sad) ), managing going to the bathroom before i even attempt to do it in a public place... etc.

but that'd just be hilarious. one day 4, the next 8; bumping into (pun not intended? ahahahah!) the same person more than once in the duration. oh, the fun!



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Re: ROFL AGAIN!  [message #20951 is a reply to message #20949] Mon, 24 May 2004 22:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I hate to disillusion the guys here, but an inch is rather longer than they all think!

Most men have pretty small flaccid willies. Most men grow to about 6", give or take.



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Re: ROFL AGAIN!  [message #20952 is a reply to message #20951] Mon, 24 May 2004 22:18 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Zambezi is currently offline  Zambezi

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Sorry Timmy, couldn't resist this...

I guess I must be average at about 6", but it's definitely more when I give than when I take:-O Surprised



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I'm a grower  [message #20954 is a reply to message #20951] Mon, 24 May 2004 22:28 Go to previous message
saben is currently offline  saben

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I admit to being quite small when flaccid, but when in the mood I can reach over 6.5", though I can be hard and still be under 6" it just depends on level of horniness, I guess Razz



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