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icon5.gif how to...??  [message #21881] Tue, 10 August 2004 04:48 Go to next message
rodneygabe is currently offline  rodneygabe

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a friend of a friend asked a group of us this question:

"How am I supposed to hit on someone who is immune to being hit on?"

the question stumped me.

just wanted to know what you guys think lol

it's a silly question, so have fun with this one. Wink



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Re: how to...??  [message #21886 is a reply to message #21881] Tue, 10 August 2004 23:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
joesdog is currently offline  joesdog

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seems pretty simple to me:

1.) don't play them. they expect that. instead, be a sincerely nice guy.

2.) express an interest in something nobody else seems to be interested in. If they're beautiful, don't mention it. talk about their opinions and engage them in intelligent conversation.

3.) don't expect this to work overnite. be a good friend and let something develope over time. Propinquity is your friend here.

good luck!



"I promise not to try not to fuck with your mind/ I promise not to mind if you go your way and i go mine/promise not to lie if i'm looking you right in your eye/promise not to try not to let you down."
--Eve6
Re: how to...??  [message #21887 is a reply to message #21886] Wed, 11 August 2004 00:09 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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I have tyo agree with aj here. Be nice, be friendly and be attentive but not fawningly so.

Lovers at first sight is fine for the movies but real meaningful relationships (take as aj said)... time.

Patients here is what counts.



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
you guys arent having any fun huh?  [message #21893 is a reply to message #21887] Wed, 11 August 2004 05:31 Go to previous messageGo to next message
rodneygabe is currently offline  rodneygabe

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c'mon, this was supposed to be funny.

i told my friend "good luck on your new adventure... you'll need it." hehe



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Re: you guys arent having any fun huh?  [message #21894 is a reply to message #21893] Wed, 11 August 2004 12:47 Go to previous messageGo to next message
joesdog is currently offline  joesdog

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Or he could enter the amateur wet underwear contest at the bar where he works, complete with a little porn karaoke featuring the ugliest drag queen in town, and top it off by reciting "The Ride of Paul Revere" in soaking wet tighty-whiteys....that's always a good way to impress.



"I promise not to try not to fuck with your mind/ I promise not to mind if you go your way and i go mine/promise not to lie if i'm looking you right in your eye/promise not to try not to let you down."
--Eve6
you're getting the idea now  [message #21900 is a reply to message #21894] Thu, 12 August 2004 03:31 Go to previous message
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