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Banned is Banned  [message #21965] Mon, 16 August 2004 07:35 Go to next message
timmy

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Location: UK, in Devon
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Bryce was back, taking advantage of my opening the board while I wanted people to post good wishes to Sammy. The board has had to be closed to "only those registered to post" because this harrassing jerk is back and posting again. His usual pattern is to post sweetly and to get gradually more virtriolic.

I have deleted his recent posts



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
I have received the following poison pen messages from Bryce  [message #21980 is a reply to message #21965] Tue, 17 August 2004 07:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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in my email:

BEGINS:
Return-Path:
X-Original-To: its_onlyme@iomfats.org
Delivered-To: its_onlyme@iomfats.org
Received: from hawk.mail.pas.earthlink.net (hawk.mail.pas.earthlink.net [207.217.120.22])
by iomfats.org (Postfix) with ESMTP id 2C5FE6DBA25
for ; Tue, 17 Aug 2004 08:06:55 +0100 (BST)
Received: from dialup-4.247.137.119.dial1.tampa1.level3.net ([4.247.137.119] helo=computer)
by hawk.mail.pas.earthlink.net with smtp (Exim 3.33 #1)
id 1Bwy3Y-0006HP-00
for its_onlyme@iomfats.org; Tue, 17 Aug 2004 00:06:53 -0700
Message-ID:
Reply-To: "robert bryce"
From: "robert bryce"
To: "IOMfAtS"
Subject: fuck you timmy
Date: Tue, 17 Aug 2004 03:03:45 -0400
MIME-Version: 1.0
Content-Type: text/plain;
charset="Windows-1252"
Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit
X-Priority: 3
X-MSMail-Priority: Normal
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X-UIDL: I0!#!hDo!!ONl"!'\>"!

wHAT A PIECE OF SHIT

ENDS

and in my Guestbook:

BEGINS:
Entry number 67:

Name:
rbryce
E-mail address:
rbryce@tbi.net
Homepage URL:

Comments:
fuck you timmy your a child molester


Date: 2004-08-17 00:25:13 (Pacific Time)
Remote Host: 4.247.137.119
ENDS

You will see that this person is abusive and libellous. The authorities have been informed.

You will note the IP addresses and email addresses.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Also he has registered, yet again  [message #21981 is a reply to message #21980] Tue, 17 August 2004 08:52 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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Location: UK, in Devon
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What you all need to understand is that this person is not welcome on any of the messagebaords or sites anywhere "near" here.

He may have major problems, that I am not disputing, but he will not ever be allowed to upset users here again with impunity. It should be remembered that one of his major abuses was to wish that someone elsewhere should "Get AIDS and die". Not, I feel, someoene any of us wish to be associated wth in any way.

I know he reads this board. He needs to be aware that all his activity is tracked, including all IP addresses and other relevant information.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Why does he want to be here?  [message #21983 is a reply to message #21981] Tue, 17 August 2004 09:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
saben is currently offline  saben

On fire!

Registered: May 2003
Messages: 1537



It is obvious that he is not only unwelcome, but that it is virtually impossible for him to stay here because you will send him packing in a matter of hours. There is nothing for him to get from being here, it is not fun, no one has any respect for him or his opinions and he'd be much better off finding somewhere else to discuss issues or finding a new hobby. If he dislikes you so much, Timmy, then why does he have such an interest in this place?



Look at this tree. I cannot make it blossom when it suits me nor make it bear fruit before its time [...] No matter what you do, that seed will grow to be a peach tree. You may wish for an apple or an orange, but you will get a peach.
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Re: Why does he want to be here?  [message #21984 is a reply to message #21983] Tue, 17 August 2004 10:03 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

Needs to get a life!

Registered: March 2003
Messages: 4729



He is not the only person that is unwelcome here....

He is just the first to be sent packing.... If (a very large percentage of proponents here had their own way.... Either through suplication to Tim directly or through the (now regular) endearing E-Mail I recieve ordering me to keep away I would be banished as well....

But being unwelcome in a place is a thing a person can get used to. I have been unwelcome in so many places I have lost count.

Why do I keep coming back while knowing this? Why do I go anywhere while knowing this? You think about it, each one of you.... Think about it very hard....

You just may enlighten yourself a bit....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
You know this is not about you, marc  [message #21985 is a reply to message #21984] Tue, 17 August 2004 11:04 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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Messages: 13801



Please don't make it about you, or, if you must do so, please make a whole new thread about this.

All here should note that I make my own decisions, un"aided" by behind the scenes emails. This is, perhaps, why it took me so long to ban Bryce. He is "the first" and I hope will be the last.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: Why does he want to be here?  [message #21986 is a reply to message #21983] Tue, 17 August 2004 11:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
joesdog is currently offline  joesdog

Likes it here
Location: USA
Registered: June 2004
Messages: 252




i can think of at least a couple of possibilities:

1.) he's a really angry person who has been treated very badly most of his life, and he really desires kindness from someone, and he sees the kindness of most of the people on this site and he wants that...a whole lot. So even if he's banned, it's worth it to come here and soak up some of what is so conspicuously absent in his life. At the same time, he can't really hide his anger all the time when he's here, and it comes out in vitriolic postings that he can't help making.

2.) he likes the game. it's a challenge to him to get on the board and post comments after having been banned. It makes him feel powerful.

3.) he likes the attention and notoriety it brings him. Additionally, it's a place where he can relatively safely defy the authority figure without worrying too much about the consequences.

These are just three possibilities that spring to mind. I really don't know this guy or what his life is like at all. They might all be wrong, or the answer could be all of the above, and then some.



"I promise not to try not to fuck with your mind/ I promise not to mind if you go your way and i go mine/promise not to lie if i'm looking you right in your eye/promise not to try not to let you down."
--Eve6
For precisley this reason  [message #21987 is a reply to message #21983] Tue, 17 August 2004 11:15 Go to previous message
timmy

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Location: UK, in Devon
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Messages: 13801



Because people talk about him and his motivations.

I will be publishing only factual information here, including all technical details from his emails, IP details etc. But I will not be expressing any opinions. I ask you all, please, not to express any either. Robert Bryce is not what this board is about.



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