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It saddens me to find out a dear friend of mine was raped and now he has entered a deep drepression because of it. He is a great guy and it makes me soo angry it had to happen to him. How can people have the nerve to rape someone?????? I just wish they..... uhhhh it makes me soo angry i'm even wishing the worse for those people. In my eyes they don't deserve to live. I did mentioned "they" because it was four guys that raped my friend.
I was very sad when he started telling me about it. I felt so impotent because i couldn't do anything about it. My friend was afriad, he was crying, he felt do worthless.. so unwanted because it happened to him.
Sometimes i have no words in my mouth when i hear his story. It is the worse thing it could happen to a person and certainly my friend didn't deserved this. My friend knows i'm there for you and he knows he has a shoulder to cry on if he necessary. It is during this times when you really need a friend and i will be there for him. I'm glad he is able to talk to me about it and everytime we talk he explains something else just to let it out.
I hope everything gets better for him.
You don't love someone because they are beautiful, they are beautiful because you love them.
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M, I seldome find myself unable to say something, but truly i have no words to descibe how sorry i feel for your friend.
Sometimes it seems, the world hurls its worst at the best people.
I wish i could say something grand and thoughtful but like i said, words fail me. So if nothing else, know that my thoughts are with you and your friend.
I wish you both the very best.
Pyro.
Do what you love, changing the world is incidental.
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My thoughts and prayers are with your friend as well. He has suffered the worst possible assault...short of being dead. And i'm sure he's not so sure about that right now. But he is not dead, and so hope exists. I hope he is getting the care he needs, and i hope the assholes that did this to him burn for it.
aj
"I promise not to try not to fuck with your mind/ I promise not to mind if you go your way and i go mine/promise not to lie if i'm looking you right in your eye/promise not to try not to let you down."
--Eve6
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blue
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Registered: August 2004
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I'm so sorry that happened to your friend. How people can turn the most intimate of acts into something so cruel and heartless and inhuman, I can't understand. And no, there are not enough words to express it.
It must have taken a lot for your friend to tell you what happened. It must take so much to even think that anyone could be trustworthy as a friend, or that anyone could love him again. How can you, when you've been through something like that?
It also must take a lot of heart and strength for you to listen to him and be there for him. It may make you feel powerless, because you wish you could take away all the hurt. But just being there for him probably means more than he can say. Now he can start to feel better and heal.
What y'all two are showing each other, that kind of love and friendship, is way bigger than anything those four guys did to your friend.
Vos abrazo.
~Blue
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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The main issue he will face is the "I should have been able to fight him off. I am a guy and guys don't get raped". http://iomfats.org/resources/health/raped.html may assist yoiu a little to understand him and him to understand himself. The links are not always reliable, but they are a start
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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smith
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Registered: January 1970
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You are being a wonderful friend and your support will mean the world to him. Please remember that rape has nothing to do with feelings; it has to do with power, cruel power and it may hurt your body but it can't touch your heart or your soul.
My thoughts are with your friend and with you
{{{hugs}}}
smith
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