I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
A couple of others that seem to be lacking or could be combined with existing responses are:
-I had no father
-I had no (strong) males close to me in my life
-I was surrounded by females
-I fell in love with my best friend and after him couldn't go back to girls.
-My hero as a kid was gay
-I never had any male friends
-I always had male friends
-My peers used to call me gay/fag
-I jacked off, it was the start of a chain of events
Add them if convenient, if not I'll survive, a few of them are ideas I've heard and things that could possibly apply to some people I know.
Look at this tree. I cannot make it blossom when it suits me nor make it bear fruit before its time [...] No matter what you do, that seed will grow to be a peach tree. You may wish for an apple or an orange, but you will get a peach.
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