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Important poll on Anal Penetrative Sex  [message #23718] Thu, 10 February 2005 16:27 Go to next message
timmy

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How can a poll like this be important? Well the answer is that the results are mimportant for a part of the world. And we need a statistically valid sample for those results.

We have had a dry run (oww!) of this poll in the past. Please simply note that this is "the real thing", and that prior results do not count

My Attitude to Anal Penetrative Sex

Regardless of whether you are sexually active or not right now, in broad and general terms would you prefer your love-making to include or to exclude anal penetration? This question includes those who penetrate and those who are penetrated. There is no middle ground here. You either include it or exclude it, either as a current or past fact or as a future possibility

I Include Anal Penetration. I either participate now (or in the past) or wish to in the future.
I Exclude Anal Penetration. I never have, and I never will participate in it


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Oh My!!! Is this a trick question???  [message #23721 is a reply to message #23718] Thu, 10 February 2005 17:21 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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Where do I sign up? Is there a prize, like maybe a gallon of my favorite lube?

Is there a waiting list? If not then WHY!!!! NOT!!!!

I think complementary condoms would be nice too....

;-D



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: Oh My!!! Is this a trick question???  [message #23725 is a reply to message #23721] Thu, 10 February 2005 17:34 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Shawn is currently offline  Shawn

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OH Marc, I was feeling really depressed til I read your post. Thanks, I needed that and you can send me the bill. ;-D
Re: Important poll on Anal Penetrative Sex  [message #23735 is a reply to message #23718] Fri, 11 February 2005 08:45 Go to previous messageGo to next message
saben is currently offline  saben

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Well, for me in general I'd say "includes" however the bar is set much higher for anal sex than for oral sex or other such activities. I think anal sex is a much "deeper" activity (excuse the pun) than any other male-male sexual acts so I feel there is a need to have more commitment and love in a relationship with that as compared to other sexual acts.



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Re: Important poll on Anal Penetrative Sex  [message #23738 is a reply to message #23735] Fri, 11 February 2005 10:39 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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With this poll you cannot say "in general". The answers are entirely black and white. We are omitting any relationship issues entirley. There is not scope for a "maybe" answer. this is on purpose. The poll must show either those who have, do, or will include it, and those who have not and will not include it



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Re: Important poll on Anal Penetrative Sex  [message #23756 is a reply to message #23738] Sun, 13 February 2005 23:30 Go to previous messageGo to next message
yourbestgayfriend is currently offline  yourbestgayfriend

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Timmy, will there be a follow up on this poll as well??

I have found that as I experience life with my boyfriend, and even though I originally never thought I would have anal sex, I have found that I love him so much that I want to give him every part of me, and he the same.

It just seems that as we grow and change in life, we will do things we may have thought at one time were an absolute no.

Hugs,
BamBam



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Re: Important poll on Anal Penetrative Sex  [message #23758 is a reply to message #23756] Mon, 14 February 2005 08:47 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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to this poll? No. It has a very specific purpose.

I am happy to createothers, though Smile



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Re: Important poll on Anal Penetrative Sex  [message #23771 is a reply to message #23735] Mon, 14 February 2005 21:41 Go to previous messageGo to next message
TygerBoiSammy is currently offline  TygerBoiSammy

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HEhehehe, you said both a mouth-full and a butt-load there Brumby-chan! ;-D
A less polarising version is now available  [message #23772 is a reply to message #23718] Mon, 14 February 2005 22:06 Go to previous message
timmy

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I have been asked to provide a less polarised version for comparison purposes.

My Attitude to Anal Penetrative Sex - Less Black and white

This version allows for shades of grey: Regardless of whether you are sexually active or not right now, in broad and general terms would you prefer your love-making to include or to exclude anal penetration? This question includes those who penetrate and those who are penetrated. PLease note that I am easing up the 'either you do or you do not' restriction. 'I didn't enjoy it' now means an 'exclude' vote/. {I'm nervous, but I might try it' means 'include'

I Include Anal Penetration. I have in the past, do now, or would like to experience it
I Exclude Anal Penetration. Even if i have tried it in the past.


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