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lifes a mess...tell me how to make it simple  [message #23909] Wed, 09 March 2005 18:28 Go to next message
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Re: lifes a mess...tell me how to make it simple  [message #23912 is a reply to message #23909] Wed, 09 March 2005 21:35 Go to previous message
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i don't think life was ever designed to be simple, or easy. life is a challenge, and every day we have to take that challenge and try and suceed at it. some would say lifes a combination of different games, but games suggest rules, and i've found that if thats the case, then the rules must keep changing on me.

forgive me for presuming some stuff dee...
but if oyu're life is a mess, then i would say its probably because you've got too many thingfs, problems or issues going on all at once, and oyu can't keep track of all of them and oyu feel like you're being overwhelmed by everything thats happeniung to you. you feel like you're drifting along the course of the rive,r being nthrown every which way by the current instead of steering oyur own boat the way you want to go. the answer can be simple, but actually doing it is kinda hard. you have to step back, take a look at everything, maybe see if you can drop issues, like maybe you're trying to do too much. then you'll have more time for the other stuff in your life, or for working on some of hte problems.
give yourself a break, a pause, a chance to look around you and assess whats going wrong, whats causing the problems; only then can you work out a way to fix them and help things go smooth again.

hope that makes sense to you my friend, speak to you soon
stay well dee



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