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Location: UK, in Devon
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I have been shown another messagebaord [which I will not name yet because I am discussing the issue with the moderator there] where a libel is being uttered by a person, the only person, whom I have ever banned from here.
The perplexing thing is that even though this person has been informed time and again that he is incorrect in his assertions he persists in uttering this libel. I cannot fathom the motivation nor does it interest me.
However this person is the cause of any user of tbi.net being wholly unable to post messages here and in my guestbook, brecause I have been forced to ban the entire IP range pertaining to his dial up service provider.
I have rarely seen such hate in one individual. I am monitoring his libels and I will be taking relevant lawful actions which I will not specify here to ensure he ceases.
I will remind him now that my policy is to post all flames with all possible identifying details present, and that I will not, since this warning is formally given be prevailed upon to remove or otherwise conceal any identifying information.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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I got bryced as well. Don't quite know what to think of it, so I have been ignoring him....for now. The man should seek out some sort of professional help....or maybe just get a life.
(\\__/) And if you don't believe The sun will rise
(='.'=) Stand alone and greet The coming night
(")_(") In the last remaining light. (C. Cornell)
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timmy
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There is a grat difference between ignoring the vile outpourings of a person who has an agenda that only he understands and ignoring the person.
I will not ignore the behaviour. The person, however, does not exist. He is a non person.
I will also not ignore anyone who gives the behaviour a platform, for that person, should they ignore formal warnings to remove the exhibited behaviour, is as guilty of the libel as the original perpetrator.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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timmy
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I am more than happy to say that the moderator of the current platform and I are having good discussions over this topic witha view to the removal or editing of the loibellous posts.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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you do realise that, even though this individual is banned from the board, it is still read-able to him (if it's who i'm thinking) and, everytime he does something and you make mention of it here, you're giving him attention, and people like this feed off the attention.
i mean this in no disrespect, timmy, you know that.. but you say the motivation does not interest you, but it does enough for you to post about it, and for him to see it (or if by chance he can't, he can get other people to come check and report back... it's easy enough) and give him the satisfaction you KNOW he's craving. the fact that he got you to a) react and b) to react publically.
he'll never stop, i believe because of that much alone. everytime he's done something, you've made mention of it here, which i'm sure makes him happy.
i want nothing more than for him to leave you ALONE, which is why i mention this. probably you not reacting may NOT stop him, and he might keep on going, but.. you're still giving him too much of your time, your energy, and your attention by taking the time to make mention of him/his actions here. he doesn't even deserve that much.
my void does not want.
-- 2.13.61.
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...which is not to say i think the behaviour, if it poses possible legal rammifications (his libel against you) should be ignored. that should be dealt with, as you've been doing. i just mean you're publically giving attention to him here, whereas you could just be dealing with it as you have been, without giving him more fuel.
i just wanted to clarify that much, since i'm half-sure what i said could be taken wrong. i'm just amazed each time he acts up it has to be given more attention. i'm sure he loves this attention, is all.
my void does not want.
-- 2.13.61.
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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I am aware that he adores the attention. The challenge, though, is that some people here have inthe past felt that they were threatened by his behaviour, and that his wholly objectional and actually quite frightening self would manifest itself on their front porch in concrete form.
So the reason I make wholly public all of his obsessive, hectoring, libellous, abusive and generally unpleasant behaviour including as a matter of polict every last trackable detail I have about him is to make sure that others realise that this small man has a loud voice and a lot of bluster.
If you show the fairy tale giant to be a midget under a magnifying glass then people realise that is precisely what he is.
You know I do not believe he has friends, let alone people who would come and read the offensive outpourings he posts in places.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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I honestly dont think it would make a lot of difference to him Dad?
Robert is the only one who knows why he persists in saying these often damaging things? I dont know an answer to it all but I do hope he will read some of these posts then stop and think how his negative posts affect others?
Please Robert, put yourself in anothers place and feel the hurt from the words you use? I dont think you really want to harm others but your vitreol is doing just that. Hugs to ya Robert 
People have a habit of changing your direction through life
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