I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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Until you justify your deeply offensive remarks about my alleged control of Grasshopper I will do precisely nothing about you and your ID.
You have now chosen that this spill over to here from the boards you moderate at awesomedude and from where I have been banned because I am insisting on an answer from you.
I have been told by email just now that the board OWNER has given you no permission as moderator for you to ban me from your forums. So I conclude that you are aware that you have made a false allegation and have no intention of either withdrawing it or justifying it.
I can not, now, reach your unappealing and wholly incorrect remark to quote it with accuracy. I can merely tell people here that I have been acused by you on more than one forum of having "Control" over Grasshopper, and that you "would prefer to see his stories on another site"
I call upon you now, and in public either to justify those remarks or to retract them.
I do not care how many of your "supporters' club" post here (like the rantings from Gabriel Duncan, below.) I care solely about a response from you.
On the other messageboard you were asked by the owner to handle this offline, in private. You have not done so. Instead you have banned me from that board and do not make any attempt to email me.
Just to be clear, this is not a public thread. I will look carefully at any intervention by other people and, if that intervention is a flame, I will act in the same manner as I did with Gabriel Duncan.
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796
You said "Personally, I would prefer and would love to see him at another site, with more options for himself. "
I take this as offensive and insulting. I have said this to you in public forum because your accusation was made in public forum. You have so far made no reply.
The owner of the site where it seems you used to moderate a forum invited us, you and me to take this offline. I accepted his request. I invited you to email me. I do so again. You have so far made no attempt to email me. I have checked both mailboxes that you have the address for, including "junk" folders.
I will accept an agreed apology from you in open forum on this forum and on ANY and ALL forums on which you have posted your remark whether phrased identically or phrased similarly.
Until this incident I believed you to be a gentleman. I will now require convincing that you are.
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796
It seems highly relevant to me. However one of those site at the owner's discretion, has temporarily removed its forums. I hope it is temporary, at least. Wisley the owner chose a cooling off period.
I do suggest we do not name the places. Inter webiste wars are horrid.
I think that Blue needs to be man enough to say what he means. However I woudl point out that this should not become a major thread with everyone joining in, though. It is up to him to handle the issues he has raised, and no-one else can second guess what he means and what his motives are.