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Masturbation  [message #26484] Sun, 16 October 2005 10:17 Go to next message
timmy

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Some of us found this easy to learn, others not so easy. The site http://jackinworld.com has loads of advanced techniques, but there is nothing that helps the novice, the uninitiated.

Please could we share the simplest of things that allow a complete novice, or one like me who had difficulty (surgery screwed me over) in achieving orgasm to be able to masturbate to orgasm?

Lack of orgasm is probably more furstrating than premature ejaculation, and no-one seems able to help us over it. At least with PE you get one!



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If you need to include a picture...  [message #26485 is a reply to message #26484] Sun, 16 October 2005 10:26 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I have no issue in this thread if relevant pictures of a penis are displayed. But please only take the images from sites where the images are from lawful age models, and, if you are referring to an anatomical part, use a graphics package to put (eg) arrows on the shot and make sure we see it is a technical picture, not an erotic one.

I do not expect whole body shots, shots of semen, facial shots or, in fact any erotica here. I certainly do not expect shots of under age models.



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For those with a frenulum  [message #26489 is a reply to message #26484] Sun, 16 October 2005 12:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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This technique is useful whether circumcised or intact.

The frenulum is, for the vast majority of men who own one (it is sometimes removed when circumcision is performed), the most sensitive part of the penis. It is tension sensitive and touch sensitive.

Those with a foreskin whos emormal masturbation technique is repeated retraction of the foreskin the frenulum is stretched repeatedly. This stretching and relaxing is a great aid to orgasm.

Whee thsi is not possible (no forekin, tight foreskin) then massaging the frenulum gently, or tapping it gently and repeatedly can be sufficient for the owner to experience orgasm without any other action.

Transferring this to a perosn learning how to masturbate (either for the first time, or re-learning after an event that has interfered with sexual function) it follows that touching the frenulum while deploying any other masturbation technique is likely to enhance or allow orgasm.

For those wondering what a frenulum is a pcture is below. The penis in question is uncircumcised with foreskin fully retracted.

Surgery removed mine somewhat late in life. I wish to kill the surgeon involved.
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Removed foreskins  [message #26492 is a reply to message #26489] Sun, 16 October 2005 20:31 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

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My father had to have his foreskin removed in his early seventies as a result of a botched hernia operation. For some reason the foreskin 'died' and became gangrenous. (He is still alive in his mid-eighties.)
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Re: Removed foreskins  [message #26493 is a reply to message #26492] Sun, 16 October 2005 20:50 Go to previous message
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