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Back to square one..........  [message #27159] Mon, 19 December 2005 10:27 Go to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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I've effectivly cut all ties here and with the closing of a door am back inside......

I guess it all was worth the try but as is enevetible I knew how it would end up......



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: Back to square one..........  [message #27161 is a reply to message #27159] Mon, 19 December 2005 11:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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that makes sense to one perosn only, I think. To you. Not to anyone else.



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Re: Back to square one..........  [message #27162 is a reply to message #27161] Mon, 19 December 2005 14:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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It means just exactly what it says...

I have closed the door on any interaction outside the house here....

I guess as I make no sense here I should cut this off as well.....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: Back to square one..........  [message #27163 is a reply to message #27162] Mon, 19 December 2005 16:52 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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You know, I am sad about that. Even so I am not going to question you. This is your decision alone



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: Back to square one..........  [message #27164 is a reply to message #27162] Mon, 19 December 2005 22:25 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Blumoogle is currently offline  Blumoogle

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I shall not say what I think of this idea... But if you do, you will be missed (alot), at least by me. And I'm shure by at least one or two others who you have helped in little ways, and have come to know you as someone to rely on, build on and trust on. You are someone who has an opinion that is saught and respected, noted and has an effect in the world, no matter how small. Its a place of safety (as I have learned, by now), you can tell people what is wrong, and they together will help you. Were you to break contact with those who need your aid, and those from whom aid you can recieve - that would not in my personal opinion be the wisest action possible, but you should do what you think is necisary or important marc, and i don't think anyone can, or may tell you what that is. Just think twice before taking any action; now, or ever further in life.

Hugs
Dee



A truth told with bad intent
Beats all the lies you can invent

-William Blake
Re: Back to square one..........  [message #27213 is a reply to message #27162] Fri, 23 December 2005 17:48 Go to previous messageGo to next message
jaycracker is currently offline  jaycracker

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Marc,
You know that's not a sensible idea the same as I do. No one seeks loneliness, and I'm damned sure you would miss being here. If you need to take time away to consider, so be it. But don't alienate yourself, for what good will that do?
It doesn't do to stand on pride thinking that you can do without any friends at all. That's a fallacy.
Just come back when you need. Some of us will understand and not think the worse of you for your absence.
Over to you :-/
Re: Back to square one..........  [message #27215 is a reply to message #27159] Fri, 23 December 2005 18:14 Go to previous message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

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Marc,

I have valued your contributions to this forum. I'm sorry to hear that you're leaving, but I'm sure you'll still be welcome if you feel like rejoining it.

Wishing you (season's greetings|merry Christmas|happy new year|best wishes) at your option.

David
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