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whatcha up to everyone?^_^  [message #31869] Sat, 06 May 2006 14:11 Go to next message
Josh is currently offline  Josh

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what are you all doing right now? lol. random question? you dont have to answer, lol. but if you want to, GO AHEAD^_^(L)

im almost done my internet time for the day, so yah. im only allowed 40 minutes. tho it used to be 30. lol.

i did some stuff that im really not proud of. and if you wanna know, then ask me tomorrow^_^(L)

~Josh~



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Love who you want to.

~Josh~
Re: whatcha up to everyone?^_^  [message #31871 is a reply to message #31869] Sat, 06 May 2006 16:56 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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updating a client's database and waiting for the query to finish Smile



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: whatcha up to everyone?^_^  [message #31872 is a reply to message #31869] Sat, 06 May 2006 17:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

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I'm getting up to date with what's on the forum.



I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
Cookin'!  [message #31874 is a reply to message #31869] Sat, 06 May 2006 17:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
pimple is currently offline  pimple

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Corn, Black Bean and Roasted Red Pepper salsa
Smoked Beef Ribs
Steak Fries
Artichoke Salad

Have yet to come up with a dessert

Y'all comin'?

Regards
Simon



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Re: whatcha up to everyone?^_^  [message #31875 is a reply to message #31869] Sat, 06 May 2006 19:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

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Actually, I'm wondering what happened to my last post on this thread -- it seems to have disappeared! (Probably it was my fault.)

I wasn't doing anything very interesting before -- procrastinating after having been asked to set the table. Now I'm procrastinating before going and eating supper.

I'm shocked that you only get 40 minutes online a day, though, Josh. I need more than that just to sift through all the spam I get!

David
Re: whatcha up to everyone?^_^  [message #31876 is a reply to message #31869] Sat, 06 May 2006 21:09 Go to previous messageGo to next message
NW is currently offline  NW

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Lying on the bed with the laptop. Wondering if I've been sensible or remarkably silly.

Since I've become disabled, I've felt very vulnerable to attack: the area I live in (Tottenham) is still considered one of the roughest parts of London (although it's much less so than it used to be!). So today I attended a Gay Mans self-defence course (part two next Saturday). A lot of it was about avoiding dodgy situations - something I'm pretty good at. But then we moved on to some basic practical stuff. Even though I "sat out" for the last hour of that, I've still very clearly overdone things physically - my back is deteriorating to the the point where I can only sit or stand for two or three minutes at a time, and I'll probably be effectively bed-bound for the next day or so.

So, I'm asking myself, am I sensible to recognise my vulnerability and push myself to aquire basic skills (including using my walking-stick effectively!) Or is it damn silly to put myself through this level of discomfort and lack of mobility - should I ring up to opt out of the final session next week?

To put things in perspective, I was last mugged about 100 yards from home some eight years ago - and I haven't been queerbashed since around 1980. But I feel that I may now present a more tempting target than I used to.



"The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral, begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy. ... Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night devoid of stars." Martin Luther King
Re: whatcha up to everyone?^_^  [message #31877 is a reply to message #31876] Sun, 07 May 2006 00:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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i have another gay friend who is not always in the full flush of health such that some might consider him to be disabled. He seems to possess the ability to talk himself out of the most alarming situations. Would you like me to introduce you?



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: whatcha up to everyone?^_^  [message #31897 is a reply to message #31877] Sun, 07 May 2006 19:47 Go to previous message
Josh is currently offline  Josh

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sure^_^(L) that'd be kewl^^(L)^^

~Josh~



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~Josh~
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