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I just want you to understand what upsets me here sometimes  [message #31949] Mon, 08 May 2006 15:45 Go to next message
timmy

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It is when we (first person plural) nitpick, and pull at the fabric of someone or something using strong enough emotions to strip paint, that I get upset.

We are all adult enough to be able to set squabblinmg aside. When we do not, then it upsets me.



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Re: I just want you to understand what upsets me here sometimes  [message #31950 is a reply to message #31949] Mon, 08 May 2006 16:53 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Timmy! Again I am sorry that there has been another disagreement concerning me. In the future I will try and let things run off my back, altho there is a limit, but Ill try harder.



I believe in Karma....what you give is what you get returned........

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Re: I just want you to understand what upsets me here someti  [message #31953 is a reply to message #31950] Mon, 08 May 2006 18:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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You cannot keep taking the blame for things. I wish you would not do so.

Incidents take two people. One to cause upset and the other to become upset. Choosing not to become upset (in either role) is a skill that has to be acquired.

Stepping back either from upsetting or becoming upset is an essentail skill.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: I just want you to understand what upsets me here someti  [message #31989 is a reply to message #31953] Tue, 09 May 2006 18:43 Go to previous message
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But we must not forget that we are only human and are not all perfect and
we all make mistakes that is what we call the learning curve.

What it comes down to is that we all have different levels of understanding,
which is what makes the human being what he is .(superior).

if the spelling is not correct please forgive.

Jack
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