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Tell me some thing. Why do the fat hair guys always take the place of the hot Guy in front of you.
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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cossie
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Location: Exiled in North East Engl...
Registered: July 2003
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... Unto him that hath something to grope shall be given yet more cute asses - but from him that hath nothing to grope, even that which he hath shall be taken away.
If I were you, I'd invest in a pair of cast-iron boxers - 'cos the only thing thou hast needs protection if it ain't goin' to be taken away!
For a' that an' a' that,
It's comin' yet for a' that,
That man tae man, the worrld o'er
Shall brithers be, for a' that.
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WTF????????
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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Of all else fails, just stand around and look cute.
I believe in Karma....what you give is what you get returned........
Affirmation........Savage Garden
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I look cute no mater what. But I like the cute guy to be running in front of me so I... you know. Watch the boncing bubbles. LOL. Not some hairy fat guy, there should be a time set up for them so I don't have to see that. lol:-()
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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I like to think I give them something cute to look at while they work out. sort of a public service thingy.
I believe in Karma....what you give is what you get returned........
Affirmation........Savage Garden
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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Speaking as the hairy fat guy, whos is trying to be the svelte hairy guy, we like looking at you cute guys. Leave us our incentive to go to the gym!
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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marc
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Registered: March 2003
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More than likely, being one of the group of gays that fixate on physical perfection you will be nothing less han disapointed as no matter who you get there will always be someone better....
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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Does he fixate on physical perfection? Or does he just go to a gym to work out?
The information I have read here says it could be either, or somewhere between.
The point you make about those who do focus in physical perfection is valid, of course it is, but how do you know where he fits on the scale?
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Hey just saying dont block my view share.
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
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But I like the cute guy to be running in front of me so I... you know. Watch the boncing bubbles. LOL. Not some hairy fat guy, there should be a time set up for them so I don't have to see that........
timmy wrote:
> Does he fixate on physical perfection? Or does he just go to a gym to work out?
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> The information I have read here says it could be either, or somewhere between.
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> The point you make about those who do focus in physical perfection is valid, of course it is, but how do you know where he fits on the scale?
That comment above is enough to tell me where his priorities are...
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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You know, it does not. It does say where your priorities would be had you made that statement yourself.
I adore physical perfection. I like looking at it, and I will be very unlikely to reattain it for myself. I do not look at fat hairy guys, I look at slim guys, actually first at the face.
I prefer infinitely to see a slim, cute guy to somone even "only" as tubby as I am.
I know that no-one is perfect, of course. So, while loving seeing that which approaches it, I recognise and love perfect imperfection, too.
Does that put me in the same pigeon hole where you have put Jason?
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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I dont think guys like that should be banned from the gym, but they should use good common sense. Have you ever been to the beach or pool and seen a guy 100 pounds overweight stuffed into a speedo? Im sorry, you can say anything you want but that is not attractive. Even I wear long trucks and Ive been told Im adorable. I know some guys cant help it, but durn they could realize that thats not what people want to see. Im sure the time will come when I need to be modest, but right now I lost my modesty 20 nurses ago.
I believe in Karma....what you give is what you get returned........
Affirmation........Savage Garden
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If you don't know a person, all you know about them is their physical appearance. And it's obviously nicer to look at someone who's good-looking than someone who's only average.
It's not as if Jason is chatting up either the cute guys or the fat hairy guys.
Incidentally, when I hear "fat and hairy" I usually think "old". If that's what it means in this case, and the cute ones are younger, then it's hardly surprising that Jason, young himself, is drawn to them. I have no qualms in saying I find people of my own age more attractive than older people, and that's just as much because of common interests and situations as looks.
David
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Thank You.
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796
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Dude, I swim on nude beaches and sunbath ethere, too. Let me tan the bits I want to tan! Just avert your eyes if you can't see past!
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Trust me I like older guys and yes I can see past the physical, however, speedos are another thing. I mean its like wear trunks or nothing, but speedos, nah.
I believe in Karma....what you give is what you get returned........
Affirmation........Savage Garden
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
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It does if you push the tubby guy out of the way to look at the cute ones.....
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
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Well then we should just put them all in a stadium and have at it with target practice..... We wouldnt want youe delicate eyes damaged by the presence of someone not to your taste.
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796
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There is a long line for that stadium. First all the soccer hooligans, then all the remaining chavs, then all ugly people, then all the people I don't like, then the plump ones.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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I go Away for 12 hours and you blow the whole thing out of proportion. It is not that look are the all that matter. (Keep in mind I try to find out if Brandon is gay. I have not given up hope yet.) But a little eye candy is good for everyone. lol I'm just saying don't block the view for others.
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
Messages: 4729
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Well no..... You said that the old guys need to be reclused to a time more convienent to your viewing....
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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You are twisting my meaning. I said "should be a time set up for them so I don't have to see that. lol" Note the LOL at the end to show i was joking. Everone has a right to be there. I just dont like to view a hair but crack during my hour run.
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
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I didnt think it was funny....... and I have no way of knowing your meaning other than by reading your words as written.
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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I am sorry that I said some thing that hurt you. I did not mean for it to be mean.
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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Nothing mean that I can see there, Jason. It was obviously a joke.
David
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Yes it was. But he did not find it funny and I hurt his feelings and for that I'm sorry. I'm not sorry for telling but I sorry I hurt some one.
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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That is very noble of you, Jason.
I have to say that Marc is in the habit of picking up on tiny matters of semantics and using them to disrupt and hijack threads. I wouldn't worry too much about offending him, because if he wants to be offended, he will be, regardless of what you wrote.
David
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
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Reading a statement as it was written ia hardly picking up on tiny bits of semantics....
It is precisely what it is.... Reading the words without trying to get into the head of the person reading it....
That being said.... weather I am offended from something or weather I am not offended by something is entirely none of your business on any level....
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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Hey STOP FIGHTING. I said I was sorry that I hurt you now if you want to fight with some do it some where other than right that is what e-mail is for. Now stick to the main subject. And to make it clear to everyone NO FIGHTING ON MY POST!
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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I'm going to work out now. Be back in 2-3 hours. I want every one on there BEST BEHAVIORS or I'll tell timmy. LOL
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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cossie
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On fire! |
Location: Exiled in North East Engl...
Registered: July 2003
Messages: 1699
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It came out a bit more obscure than I intended!
It was a take on Luke's Gospel, Chapter 19, Verse 26: "For I say unto you, that unto every one which hath shall be given; and from him that hath not, even that which he hath shall be taken away." Not bad for a non-Christian, huh?
You were talking about hoping to get to know a guy at work, so I guessed that you didn't have a 'special someone' at present. So ... you don't have anyone else to grope! It follows from the above that what you DO have to grope will be taken away from you - but the only thing you have to grope is attached to you. Hence the suggestion that you should buy cast-iron boxers for self-preservation!
Don't for a moment think I'm being smug because you didn't get it - it was all my fault. British humour often doesn't click in the USA (and vice versa) and even by British standards I'm pretty weird!
Sorry, Jason - don't let it put you off this rather special board.
For a' that an' a' that,
It's comin' yet for a' that,
That man tae man, the worrld o'er
Shall brithers be, for a' that.
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??? What you talking about did i miss some thing?
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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I'm glad to see that every-one has behaved while I was gone
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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And if you believe that, Jason, you'll believe anything. After all I wasn't behaving while you were away.
Hugs
N
I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.
…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
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What did you do now. LOL
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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Wouldn't you like to know?!?
I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.
…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
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Yes I would. But I got the feling you are not going to tell me.
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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