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icon7.gif Brandon  [message #34880] Sat, 26 August 2006 19:34 Go to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

Really getting into it
Location: dallas, Texas
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Its time I tell you all a little about Brandon.

First what he looks like
He is 5'9"/5'10" alittle shorter than me(5'11")
Body type is same as mine. Mesomorphs: The naturally muscular person with wide shoulders, small waist, athletic build.
Hair black all though when he shaved it. it now looks red.
Eyes OMG thoses eyes Light blue/green some days more green then blue.
Voice is a upper deep voice. MIne is upper-mid.
Did mention those eyes

Personalty
Of what I seen fun loving.
Got a mouth on him. He can get a little overboard with those words.

If there is any thing else ask and I'll try to ans.



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: Brandon  [message #34890 is a reply to message #34880] Sat, 26 August 2006 20:53 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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You know, it really is coming to be time to talk to him properly. Again, what do you have to lose?



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: Brandon  [message #34899 is a reply to message #34880] Sun, 27 August 2006 00:03 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

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I take it, Jason, that you haven't got the power of 'gaydar'.

You didn't tell us about Brandon's butt, nor how he wears his jeans. Too early to know whether he wears boxers or briefs? I hope he isn't a sagger.

I'm only asking because I'm interested.

Hugs
N



I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
Re: Brandon  [message #34910 is a reply to message #34899] Sun, 27 August 2006 06:37 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

Really getting into it
Location: dallas, Texas
Registered: August 2006
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Not a sagger but he(Brandon) is a boxer guy.(thank god) briefs are a turn off for me. Don't know why.

and for the first question no I don't and it sucks.



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: Brandon  [message #34911 is a reply to message #34890] Sun, 27 August 2006 06:46 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

Really getting into it
Location: dallas, Texas
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timmy wrote:
> Again, what do you have to lose?


You wrote the same statement a couple of days ago. And I gave it a lot of though.

And here is what I came up with the good and the bad.

Good

1 Brandon is gay ( I almost put he)
2 Brandon Likes me back


Bad

1 Brandon dose not like me back.
2 Brandon is not gay.
3 Brandon get uncomfortable around me and I lose a friend.
4 Brandon Freaks and tells every one I'm gay.
5 Brandon reacts with anger.



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: Brandon  [message #34912 is a reply to message #34880] Sun, 27 August 2006 06:56 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

Really getting into it
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Cont from the other topic before it got off subject. I think i'll keep little comments like that to my self. To day work is the first time I saw Brandon Scince, I was an ass. I did not go up to I made up my mind to see he would come to talk to me. I did not have to wait long. with in 10 min of showing up he came up to and started to talk to me. He ask what I had been up to the last week. And that when I look at him. into his eyes i mean. his left eye was red. I asked what happend. he said he got pink eye. I felt so bad for him. (I had pink eye like a moth ago). But we talked and then the manger came in and told brandon that he need to go home. I felt like saying no he can't. cuase the only real time i get to see brandon is at work.



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: Brandon  [message #34913 is a reply to message #34910] Sun, 27 August 2006 07:15 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

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Bubble butt or slimline?



I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
Re: Brandon  [message #34915 is a reply to message #34913] Sun, 27 August 2006 07:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

Really getting into it
Location: dallas, Texas
Registered: August 2006
Messages: 785




thats for me to look at a u all to may be know



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
icon12.gif Jason, you little tease…  [message #34916 is a reply to message #34915] Sun, 27 August 2006 08:31 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

On fire!
Location: England
Registered: November 2003
Messages: 1756



Mad



I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
Re: Brandon  [message #34917 is a reply to message #34911] Sun, 27 August 2006 09:17 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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Location: UK, in Devon
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Messages: 13796



of those, only #4 of the bad is bad.

If that happens, what real difference does it make to you?



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: Brandon  [message #34922 is a reply to message #34917] Sun, 27 August 2006 15:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

Really getting into it
Location: dallas, Texas
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Messages: 785




Well I like working there. But I dont know how every one else will react. And if they knew I don't know if I could show my face there ever again. I may be over reacting. but I'm not ready for that many people to know.



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: Brandon  [message #34929 is a reply to message #34922] Sun, 27 August 2006 16:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

Has no life at all
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796



That does make sense. But how awkward a situation it is, that is hard to determine, because it truly depends on your environment.

Interestingly, important as it is to you, your being gay is really unimportant to most people.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: Brandon  [message #34931 is a reply to message #34922] Sun, 27 August 2006 17:44 Go to previous message
marc is currently offline  marc

Needs to get a life!

Registered: March 2003
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Good point.... and one very important part of coming out is that the door is one way.... You can not one day say "I'm gay" and then the next say, "Well I changed my mind".....

Once the bell is rung it can not be unrung....

The lucky guys have friends that will keep a confidence and not reveal what you tell them.... There are not many lucky guys walking this planet.... Usually someone slips and lets the cat out of the bag....

You need to hope for the best, but prepare for the worse if you tell just one person....

Please understand here that I am not trying to talk you out of doing anything, but I am saying that you need to be careful....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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