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icon7.gif Well I have some good news  [message #35226] Mon, 04 September 2006 23:42 Go to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

Really getting into it
Location: dallas, Texas
Registered: August 2006
Messages: 785




OK. Brandon has not quite. I did not ask our boss why he has been missing so much work. I feel much better now that I know that. I should see brandon this wed.



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: Well I have some good news  [message #35230 is a reply to message #35226] Tue, 05 September 2006 08:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

On fire!
Location: England
Registered: November 2003
Messages: 1756



Jason, I just want you to know how much I'm rooting for you. Good luck.

Hugs
Nigel



I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
Re: Well I have some good news  [message #35231 is a reply to message #35226] Tue, 05 September 2006 11:15 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

Has no life at all
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796



Now relax about it and him. The sky is not falling, and nothing is urgent. Share a lunchbreak, have a soda, ave a chat, and learn about him and his likes and dislikes.

This may sound odd, but this is not about you. It is all about him and whether you should expose yourself to his reaction. There is NO harm in telling him you enjoy his company, but there may be harm in declaring your undying passionate love inthe frist 3 seconds.

Rememebr, if he is gay he may be like I was - I wanted the boys I wanted, but I rejected advances form those I did not want as being slightly dirty and horrid. So tread lightly and gently, while treading positively.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Jason, it's Wednesday…  [message #35277 is a reply to message #35226] Wed, 06 September 2006 08:37 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

On fire!
Location: England
Registered: November 2003
Messages: 1756



…for heaven's sake tell us! This is causing sleepless nights.

Hugs
Nigel



I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
Re: Jason, it's Wednesday…  [message #35288 is a reply to message #35277] Wed, 06 September 2006 14:22 Go to previous message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

Really getting into it
Location: dallas, Texas
Registered: August 2006
Messages: 785




I wont see him until 5 pm my time central us



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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