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Question of the week  [message #35566] Wed, 13 September 2006 18:24 Go to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

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Who here wishes they cold have kid.(I know some do.) But know they could never fall in love with a woman.

Me want one or two. Boy/Girl dose not matter to me.



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: Question of the week  [message #35568 is a reply to message #35566] Wed, 13 September 2006 19:32 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Brian1407a is currently offline  Brian1407a

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Jason, I know I am going to have at least one son, two or three if possible. the others male female doesnt mater. Im going to adopt them. There are thousands of children in the world who pray every night that someone will adopt them and they can have a family. there is a boy in our school that was adopted. He is Russian and he lived in an orphinage. He had a heart condition that would have killed him befor he was 15, at the time he was 8. He had no hope of being adopted. The doctors at Vanderbilt childrens hospital brought him here and operated. They fixed his heart. I first met him in the hospital at Vandy. I remember he was so eager to learn English. He was scheduled to go back to Russia and the orphenage, but at the last minute a family Here applied with the Russian Government to adopt him. I remember when they told him, he cried so much. Later he told me that he cried because he wouldnt have to go back to the orphanage. I dont understand why they make it so hard to adopt. Everybody wants a baby, but there are thousands of older kids who need a home but they get left behind.

Oh gee well thats my rant for the day.



I believe in Karma....what you give is what you get returned........

Affirmation........Savage Garden
Children  [message #35569 is a reply to message #35566] Wed, 13 September 2006 19:33 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

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I would like children one day, definitely. In fact, I am determined to have children.

I am not quite sure how it could work out. On my list of priorities it is on the same level as finding a life-partner. Maybe I will have to adopt; maybe I will be able to find a woman who is able to help; maybe I will do a Stepen Daldry. I don't know. That is quite a long way in the future at the moment.

David
Re: Question of the week  [message #35570 is a reply to message #35568] Wed, 13 September 2006 19:43 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

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Not a rant, Brian -- it's very creditable of you. I know next to nothing about adoption, or the difficulties of adopting, especially internationally. There are some parts of the world where children are not given the attention they should be, and that is very depressing.

I too would like at least a couple of sons. I'm already starting to worry about how I'm ever going to be able to afford to send them to Winchester, though. I guess that should be the least of my concerns at this stage. Smile

David
Re: Question of the week  [message #35572 is a reply to message #35566] Wed, 13 September 2006 21:25 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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I am step dad to 3 great boys.....

Zachariah.....

Jedidiah.....

Jeremiah.....

What can I say, Kevy was after all a southern baptist minister when I rescued him....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: Question of the week  [message #35573 is a reply to message #35572] Wed, 13 September 2006 21:30 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

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Marc wrote:

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> What can I say, Kevy was after all a southern baptist minister when I rescued him....

Whos Kevy



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: Question of the week  [message #35581 is a reply to message #35573] Wed, 13 September 2006 23:20 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Brian1407a is currently offline  Brian1407a

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Jason, Kevy is Marc other half.



I believe in Karma....what you give is what you get returned........

Affirmation........Savage Garden
Hmm ... would it really be a kindness ...  [message #35583 is a reply to message #35570] Thu, 14 September 2006 00:26 Go to previous messageGo to next message
cossie is currently offline  cossie

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Location: Exiled in North East Engl...
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... to send your sons to a place where pupils converse in an unintelligible languge of their own and hypothermia is a resident hazard? I mean, the poor lads might grow up to be like you! (Exits stage right, cackling madly!)



For a' that an' a' that,
It's comin' yet for a' that,
That man tae man, the worrld o'er
Shall brithers be, for a' that.
Re: Question of the week  [message #35587 is a reply to message #35568] Thu, 14 September 2006 01:37 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

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Do you mind if I ask why you where in the hospital. Sick or Volunteer.



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: Question of the week  [message #35588 is a reply to message #35587] Thu, 14 September 2006 01:48 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Brian1407a is currently offline  Brian1407a

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I assume you are asking me. I have anemia, and I have been anemic sinse I was 6. Its caused by a kidney problem. I dont produce the enzyme needed to tell my body to make blood cells. I have to donate blood once a month and I have to give myself a shot once a week of EPO (epogin) to trigger blood cell production. I have a very high regard for the doctors at Vanderbilt, I would have been dead at 6 if they hadnt figured out what was going on.



I believe in Karma....what you give is what you get returned........

Affirmation........Savage Garden
Re: Question of the week  [message #35589 is a reply to message #35588] Thu, 14 September 2006 01:51 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

Really getting into it
Location: dallas, Texas
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I'm glad they figured it out befor it was to late



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: Question of the week  [message #35595 is a reply to message #35573] Thu, 14 September 2006 03:33 Go to previous message
marc is currently offline  marc

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Registered: March 2003
Messages: 4729



My life partner....... My life........ My love......

We became one in a ceremony at the north shore of lake Champlaine in Saint Albans, Vermont......

This past August we celebrated our 5th anniversary....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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