I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
Location: dallas, Texas
Registered: August 2006
Messages: 785
do you know what i was told by one of my uncles. that son of a bitch! Let start from the begaining there is this girl who is always calling me at home.(she has a big crush on me its sweet but she is not my type) but a good friend. well my parents got it in too thier heads that i liked her she liked me. so i went along with it to lead them a stray.
well I did a store meeting at the local bowling place. on the company dime exsept for the footware which was $50 but i picked up that tab. and the other managers helped out to it came out to be about $13.
i had to be there at 9:00 to make sure every thing was set. as i was whaiting i called my uncle. he asked me about the girl. so i figed that my parents where spreading the word. and i lied a little. and then he said it.
"thank god that you where a queer. i am so glad you are not gay." before he said any thing else i told hime they where here and had to go. why did i have to be born in to this family.
thats why i soon as i have my degree i cutting most of my ties.
[Updated on: Sat, 07 October 2006 04:53]
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796
As afather who is a queer, I can tell you that I wholly echo your uncle's sentiment.
I am so glad my son is not gay.
Don't get me wrong, he is my son, adorable, has faults, and can be a total dork. But I am glad he is not queer. I am glad he doesn't have to face society by being in a minority. Life is tough enough however well accepted gay people are on the surface.
I am glad I did not make the error of timing that your uncle did had he been gay. If your uncle had known and had he said "I wish you were not queer", that would have been different, I think.
BTW dude, I do have to translate what you post! You've taken over from me as typo king.
When I was 17 my mother said to me "I'm so glad you are going out with girls, dear. Your father and I thought you might be going to be homosexual." So I do know where you are coming from.
Interetsiung that today she denies that absolutely! And at the time it hurt.
Location: dallas, Texas
Registered: August 2006
Messages: 785
Sorry about the typos they should get better now that I have actually gotten some sleep.
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by