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"You are not alone" "Du er ekke elene"  [message #38559] Fri, 10 November 2006 15:48 Go to next message
timmy

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I finally watched a real copy. The DVD arrived from eBay and I sat and watched the movie.

It's dated, trite, has ghastly fashions and hairstyles, impossible adult attitudes and it made me sob my heart out.

I watched the movie as Kim. I so wanted my own Bo.



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Re: "You are not alone" "Du er ekke elene"  [message #38561 is a reply to message #38559] Fri, 10 November 2006 15:58 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I've watched it a couple of times. Blurry-eyed with tears doesn't begin to describe it.

I agree it's a bit trite, and the adult attitudes are implausible. But I *love* the hairstyles and fashions: they remind me so much of my own (later) teens.

I think it's probably one of my favourite movies, albeit a bit of a guilty pleasure because in many technical ways it is just so bad ...



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Re: "You are not alone" "Du er ekke elene"  [message #38563 is a reply to message #38561] Fri, 10 November 2006 16:05 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I missed the fashions. I was a teenager too early. I tried them out at university, but somehow they never worked.

The budget must have been all of £10/7/11d 3/4. But thye look of joy in the faces of Bo and Kim.... they must be able to act very well.

Kim's father..... oh lord.



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Re: "You are not alone" "Du er ekke elene"  [message #38571 is a reply to message #38559] Fri, 10 November 2006 17:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I may be thick, but I found the story line hard to follow and the ending unconvincing. And the colour is so incredibly awful.

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Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

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Re: "You are not alone" "Du er ekke elene"  [message #38572 is a reply to message #38571] Fri, 10 November 2006 17:15 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Edit: - the colour a n d the lighting



I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
Re: "You are not alone" "Du er ekke elene"  [message #38577 is a reply to message #38571] Fri, 10 November 2006 17:23 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I don't think there was a story! It looks like a low budget low scrip movie made for a limited market. But it still made me sob. The ending? Well, it was hardly an ending. Hardly a beginning either



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Re: "You are not alone" "Du er ekke elene"  [message #38596 is a reply to message #38571] Fri, 10 November 2006 19:48 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Interestingly, the colour didn't worry me - my family has a lot of colour slide photos dating from the 1960s and 1970s which have colour-faded in much the same way, so I'm probably predisposed to see it as appropriate (and, indeed, perhaps adding a verisimilitude that the movie otherwise lacks).

Actually, I'm often intrigued by films that employ unusual colour palettes - "Acla" (La Discesa di Aclà a Floristella) which uses sulphurous and earth-tones almost throughout, and "In a Glass Cage" (Tras el cristal) where the colour scheme of pale-and-blues is relieved only by the red of blood, and of a symbolic coat, are classic examples.

(BTW, Both of these are very brutal movies, and I wouldn't suggest anyone watches them unless they have extremely strong stomachs - in any event, I'm not sure Acla is available any longer, as it featured a small amount of prepubescent male nudity.)



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Re: "You are not alone" "Du er ekke elene"  [message #38597 is a reply to message #38596] Fri, 10 November 2006 20:06 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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It's possible the DVD has been somehow remastered. The colours were pretty true to outdoor life



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Re: "You are not alone" "Du er ekke elene"  [message #38599 is a reply to message #38597] Fri, 10 November 2006 20:14 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Certainly sounds as though the current DVD's have been remastered or restored. Oh dear, that means it's a movie I'm going to have to buy again ... I hate it when that happens!



"The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral, begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy. ... Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night devoid of stars." Martin Luther King
Re: "You are not alone" "Du er ekke elene"  [message #38600 is a reply to message #38599] Fri, 10 November 2006 20:19 Go to previous message
timmy

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I was lucky. I bought on eBay a US region one and my DVD player will play it. European region got up to £30! Mine was £10 include postage



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