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its unfortunately easy to hurt those you are closest too, because you have greater and tighhter bonds, stronger feelings and powerful emotions for each other, caused by your love for each other. the insult laughed away from an enemy stings like worst sword wound coming from your love.
but if it is love you feel mand the feeling is mutual then the love will conquer all. you feel guilty now for what you have done and upset for the hurt you have caused, but this merely reinforces your love, your strength of feeling for him.
i would be very surprised to learn of couples that didn't fight every so often. unless your boyfriend is the total mirror to you own personality, there's always going to be something that might one day flare up. learning how to deal with these issues and the occasional arguments is one of the hardest things to learn in a relationship...
Odi et amo: quare id faciam, fortasse requiris.
Nescio, set fieri sentio et excrucior
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