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hi  [message #39954] Fri, 15 December 2006 01:23 Go to next message
Josh is currently offline  Josh

On fire!

Registered: April 2006
Messages: 1012



hey everyone.

its been a while.

im a bad person.

ive hurt the one i love most in this world tonight.

i made him cry, and i raised my voice to him. he said i was mean.

which i am.

i hate myself for this.

i hate myself for hurting him, like i have.

..

~Josh~



21.

Love who you want to.

~Josh~
Re: hi  [message #39955 is a reply to message #39954] Fri, 15 December 2006 01:26 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

Really getting into it
Location: dallas, Texas
Registered: August 2006
Messages: 785




what happend



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: hi  [message #39959 is a reply to message #39954] Fri, 15 December 2006 10:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Aussie is currently offline  Aussie

Really getting into it

Registered: August 2006
Messages: 475



Hi Josh
Maybe the words of this song are appropriate for you.
Hope they make you feel better.

You Always Hurt The One You Love
------Michael Buble

You always hurt the one you love
The one you shouldn't hurt at all
You always take the sweetest rose
And crush it till the petals fall
You always break the kindest heart
With a hasty word you can't recall
So If I broke your heart last night
It's because I love you most of all

Aussie
Re: hi  [message #39960 is a reply to message #39954] Fri, 15 December 2006 12:10 Go to previous message
tBP is currently offline  tBP

Likes it here
Location: England
Registered: February 2004
Messages: 242




its unfortunately easy to hurt those you are closest too, because you have greater and tighhter bonds, stronger feelings and powerful emotions for each other, caused by your love for each other. the insult laughed away from an enemy stings like worst sword wound coming from your love.

but if it is love you feel mand the feeling is mutual then the love will conquer all. you feel guilty now for what you have done and upset for the hurt you have caused, but this merely reinforces your love, your strength of feeling for him.



i would be very surprised to learn of couples that didn't fight every so often. unless your boyfriend is the total mirror to you own personality, there's always going to be something that might one day flare up. learning how to deal with these issues and the occasional arguments is one of the hardest things to learn in a relationship...



Odi et amo: quare id faciam, fortasse requiris.
Nescio, set fieri sentio et excrucior
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