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NW  [message #40841] Tue, 30 January 2007 12:19 Go to next message
JFR is currently offline  JFR

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NW has not been around here for about a week, which is unusual. Does anyone know whether he is just lurking or away on vacation? Or is there another reason for his absence?

Concerned.

J F R



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Re: NW  [message #40843 is a reply to message #40841] Tue, 30 January 2007 14:15 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

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Hi JFR,

I spoke to him a couple of days ago. As far as I know he is okay, but I am sure that it would do no harm to send him an email.

Best wishes,

David
Re: NW  [message #40845 is a reply to message #40841] Tue, 30 January 2007 18:31 Go to previous message
NW is currently offline  NW

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Thanks for asking JFR - I'm fine now, although last week was a decidedly shitty week for me.

I fell over on an icy patch on Monday (22nd) on the outside stairs at the railway station, after having been to the theatre with my Mum. I landed awkwardly, and inflamed my back problems, so I was housebound (often bedbound) for most of last week, and in a lot of pain. It's basically a bunch of trapped nerves serving the groin and leg area - the effect is similar to having been kicked in the balls, but lasts four or five days ... and even with strongest painkillers I get very depressed and tearful. I tend to handle these situations by just hiding myself away and going uncommunicative until I've healed up a bit.

Fortunately, it only happens three or four times a year: it isn't anything to worry about, just one of those things that one has to learn to live with, and not allow it to affect life beforehand or afterwards too much!

I was back on the bounce by the weekend, and today I'm actually rather cheerful. I met an old schoolfriend for lunch - although we e-mail each other regularly and have met as part of an old school group several times, it's the first one-on-one meeting we've had for thirty years (he's been living in France for the past 25 years). And it's great to know that someone who was my closest friend for several years at school, and who I rather hero-worshipped (but never fancied) is entirely relaxed about my sexual orientation, and happy to hug me "hallo" and "goodbye".



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