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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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We have a new poll:
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Aussie
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Really getting into it |
Registered: August 2006
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I think this poll would have been more interesting and relevant if it included ones age group.
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13800
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I do not have the ability to ask supplementary questions, I fear. It is a very simple polling engine
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
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set up first a set of links applicable to various age groups...
each link will go to a duplicate poll where age specific responses can be produced
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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Aussie
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Really getting into it |
Registered: August 2006
Messages: 475
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Marc you must agree with me then :0-)
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timmy
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Has no life at all |
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13800
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True. Next time 
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Timmy,
Would love to have sex as a result of feelings coming from companionship. But a companionship relationship is much more important for without that you have neither.
Tad Durham
Belfast, Maine U S A
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Guenth50
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Getting started |
Location: Germany
Registered: February 2007
Messages: 6
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If I need it daily then I have daily, whether I have a partner available or not. At least in this point God made a fair decision.
Can you imagine a person who daily masturbates but choose low or medium sex drive?
The question was not: Can you or how you cope with you partners lower or higher sex drive. That would be a different (and more interesting?) matter.
Guenth
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For some people, the number of orgasms they have is relatively constant - the more they have with a partner, the fewer they'll have on their own. For others, it doesn't make much difference - they tend to masturbate the same amount whether or not they have a partner.
I have no idea why this should be so - but I've participated in discussions on this on other sites, and it does seem to be the case.
> Can you imagine a person who daily masturbates but choose low or medium sex drive?
In some senses, that may be me: with increasing age masturbation has gradually declined from eight or nine times a week to five or six ... but I haven't had sex with another person for 20 years, and the physical sex act is much less important to me than other forms of physical affection (hugs 'n cuddles).
"The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral, begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy. ... Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night devoid of stars." Martin Luther King
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I have always avoided sexual encounters. I suppose it is due to a combination of lack of desire, reservations about my ability to perform and it never occurring to me that anyone would be interested in me.
However, I can never quite pin down the extent to which my sex drive is low and the extent to which it is repressed (perhaps as a self-defense mechanism to avoid getting hurt).
In my heart I long to be loved and to have someone to love, and were I ever to find such a person I think I would want to express that love through some kind of physical dimension. But I find it difficult to envisage quite what form that physical dimension would take.
I am rather envious of those who are in touch with their sexuality, who know what they want and are not afraid to seek it out. Sometimes it feels that everybody is like that except me. But a visit to the asexuality discussion forums (http://www.asexuality.org/discussion) shows that that is not the case.
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saben
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Registered: May 2003
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More than once per day is where?
Look at this tree. I cannot make it blossom when it suits me nor make it bear fruit before its time [...] No matter what you do, that seed will grow to be a peach tree. You may wish for an apple or an orange, but you will get a peach.
Master Oogway
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I used to be the non-existent option, "I have no idea what sex is like."
Now I'm another non-existent option, "I have not had an opportunity for sex, as I want sex, when I have it, to to be with someone I love as a friend."
Whether I will want it thereafter on a daily, weekly or monthly basis (with or without masturbation) I do not know.
David
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I used to enjoy it and think it was important. Now it's of no importance at all. I find the idea of it slightly repulsive.
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