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totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42042] Mon, 23 April 2007 23:29 Go to next message
Josh is currently offline  Josh

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'I am vivian I saw your email address today and found you worthy to be mine as some one whom i can lay on his armsas long as love is concern, caring and teassing you all the nightlong, If you are interested in knowing more and for me to send you some pictures of mine please contact me thus,,,,(vivian_willias@yahoo.com) awaiting to hear from you.'

thats what the email said.

im not sure if i give you guys the link if it'll open for you, so i put it there^^

~Josh~

Feeling: Creeped out...
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Love who you want to.

~Josh~
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42043 is a reply to message #42042] Mon, 23 April 2007 23:39 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

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I got exactly the same thing. Probably a spammer testing whether your address works. I'd ignore it.

David
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42044 is a reply to message #42043] Mon, 23 April 2007 23:41 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Josh is currently offline  Josh

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thanks. but it still creeps me out...

~Josh~



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~Josh~
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42045 is a reply to message #42043] Mon, 23 April 2007 23:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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hmmmm wow that one is getting around, I got it too though just deleted it without opening.



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They'll tell you where to go
But till you get there yourself you never really know
Where some have found their paradise
Other's just come to harm
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42046 is a reply to message #42044] Mon, 23 April 2007 23:45 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Roger is currently offline  Roger

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Josh, dont creep out. It is either a spamer or a come on for a porn site. I have gotten some like this on AOL, but this is the first time for Yahoo. it seems they are expanding thier reach. Just delete it and dont answer. Your safe, we wont let anyone hurt you Smile



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Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42048 is a reply to message #42046] Mon, 23 April 2007 23:47 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Josh is currently offline  Josh

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thanks^^ im glad^^ *hugs you*^_^

~Josh~



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~Josh~
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42057 is a reply to message #42042] Tue, 24 April 2007 03:32 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

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I got that exact same email. I reported it as spam. You should do this before deleting them. Perhaps you will save others from getting the same piece of garbage in their mail. I hate spam, it's not even good with eggs! Smile



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Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42060 is a reply to message #42042] Tue, 24 April 2007 05:32 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

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I got this message too and bounced it. I'm glad it wasn't personal.

Hugs
N

[Updated on: Tue, 24 April 2007 21:21]




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Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

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Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42062 is a reply to message #42060] Tue, 24 April 2007 06:25 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Jedediah is currently offline  Jedediah

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Looks like everyone in the world has been getting that email - even here.

Busy girl that vivian

cheers



E Te Atua tukuna mai ki au te Mauri tauki te tango i nga mea
Everyone got it...  [message #42063 is a reply to message #42062] Tue, 24 April 2007 07:09 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Michael-Kent Dobison is currently offline  Michael-Kent Dobison

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Well you can count me in too. I saw it and had to open it cause I really do have a friend called Vivian.

Sill Girl if only she knew...hehehe



"And so the lion fell in love with the Lamb"
"What a stupid Lamb"
"What a sick, masochistic lion"
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42064 is a reply to message #42042] Tue, 24 April 2007 08:46 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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Spam. Delete unread, and ignore



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icon3.gif I have News...  [message #42067 is a reply to message #42042] Tue, 24 April 2007 11:03 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Michael-Kent Dobison is currently offline  Michael-Kent Dobison

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Now I know that I should not have done it, but I had to. Me and my curiosity. So I found out that there is no need to worry abot Vivian, she is a a 25 Year old refugee in Senegal, Dakar...

Need I say ANYMORE...

So Josh now you can sleep sound knowing that it was just another mass hoax/spam/money grabbing email.

Well have a good day, and should any of you wish to know what the whole email said feel free to drop me a mail and I will let you "have it"

Luvies ME



"And so the lion fell in love with the Lamb"
"What a stupid Lamb"
"What a sick, masochistic lion"
Re: I have News...  [message #42072 is a reply to message #42067] Tue, 24 April 2007 14:18 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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And she is setting up to run the Nigerian 419 Scam, or the Russian Bride scam



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42074 is a reply to message #42042] Tue, 24 April 2007 15:34 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Tad Durham is currently offline  Tad Durham

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Josh, I got it too. Just deleted it. But felt frustrated. I have reported spam for years and nothing changes. So I just delet them. Yes it takes up my time when I could be doing something else (what??? ha ha)but no one listens so I quit reporting and just delete. Sorry you and all your friends got this crap to deal with.



Tad Durham
Belfast, Maine U S A
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42075 is a reply to message #42057] Tue, 24 April 2007 16:05 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

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Reporting spam can only prompt the ISP to update its spam filters. It'll never stop it, because there's no way to block spammers from abusing the resources of other naive or legitimate people. It's high time that we scrapped the SMTP protocol and moved to a better one.

David
icon4.gif Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42078 is a reply to message #42042] Tue, 24 April 2007 17:00 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

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Since this spam has been received, it would seem, by everyone who is a registered user of this forum, this may have been where the email addresses were collected. This will always be a problem whenever you post your email address on the net. It is just something to accept I suppose. I guess I can live with it as long as it is just spam for the purpose of selling something and not some virulent virus being forwarded. Just maintain good firewall protection and keep your virus programs up to date. And be quick to post a warning here when something nasty is sent your way. We will just continue to do some mutual back scratching.



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Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42080 is a reply to message #42078] Tue, 24 April 2007 17:37 Go to previous messageGo to next message
NW is currently offline  NW

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Paul Schroder wrote:
> Since this spam has been received, it would seem, by everyone who is a registered user of this forum, this may have been where the email addresses were collected.

That's pretty certain - the address that I received this bit of spam on is one that I've only used on this site, and that only for the past few months. I think the couple of people from here who e-mail me from time to time have a different (permanent) address for me, so it is rather unlikely to have been a question of anyone's mail program having been got at by a virus.

It is one of the risks of being part of an on-line community: as always, mails where neither the subject nor the sender are familiar should be treated with suspicion!



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Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42081 is a reply to message #42080] Tue, 24 April 2007 17:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Jedediah is currently offline  Jedediah

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So why is a female sending that message to members of THIS forum? Not very bright, is she?

cheers



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Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42082 is a reply to message #42081] Tue, 24 April 2007 18:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
jack is currently offline  jack

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perhaps a she man?



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Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42084 is a reply to message #42080] Tue, 24 April 2007 21:14 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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The address was harvested by a bot. She is setting people up to lose money with her.

Guys, it is hardly worth discussing, except to publish "her" email address as a scammer and spammer.

these people are paid by gangmasters to send this stuff out. It;s a living.



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Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42085 is a reply to message #42042] Tue, 24 April 2007 21:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
davethegnome is currently offline  davethegnome

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and I thought I was special to be considered "...you worthy to be mine as some one whom i can lay on his armsas long as love is concern, caring and teassing you all the nightlong..."


david



It's always the old to lead us to the war
It's always the young to fall
Now look at all we've won with the sabre and the gun
Tell me is it worth it all
~Phil Ochs "I Aint Marching Anymore"
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42086 is a reply to message #42085] Tue, 24 April 2007 23:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Josh is currently offline  Josh

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so fuckin stupid. xDD

~Josh~



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~Josh~
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42087 is a reply to message #42086] Wed, 25 April 2007 02:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
davethegnome is currently offline  davethegnome

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agreed.

She could have atleast proofread her email.

david



It's always the old to lead us to the war
It's always the young to fall
Now look at all we've won with the sabre and the gun
Tell me is it worth it all
~Phil Ochs "I Aint Marching Anymore"
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42088 is a reply to message #42086] Wed, 25 April 2007 07:34 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

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Hey Josh, your siggie just gets me to photobucket, not to your page.

Hugs
N



I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42090 is a reply to message #42088] Wed, 25 April 2007 14:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Josh is currently offline  Josh

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oh. lol

thats strange^^ i'll have to try and fix that^^

~Josh~



21.

Love who you want to.

~Josh~
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42093 is a reply to message #42090] Wed, 25 April 2007 15:05 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

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It still says "page not found".



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icon14.gif Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42094 is a reply to message #42042] Wed, 25 April 2007 15:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

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Here is a thought. Why not spam the spammers? Save all the spam mail you receive in a special spam folder. Everytime you receive some new spam, forward all the other spam you've received to the bugger.

Har, Har! Perhaps eventually they will only have one another's addresses and can spend their time spamming back and forth!



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Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42095 is a reply to message #42090] Wed, 25 April 2007 16:05 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

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Take out the IMG bits so it just reads:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v643/iyrealm/I_miss_you___for_PyroShadow18_by_Ni.jpg
No, no, NO!  [message #42096 is a reply to message #42094] Wed, 25 April 2007 16:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

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Spammers almost always forge the addresses, frequently with the addresses of real people. I've had my address forged in the past, and it's bad enough getting a huge number of bounces, returns, "out of office" messages and so on without people sending me spam and abusive messages back about messages I never sent in the first place.

This is why email is so broken: anyone can forge anyone else's address!

The only occasional exception is the Nigerian scam, whereby the spammer actually wants you to reply. But they only make up a small percentage of spam -- almost all of the ones selling Viagra and related drugs are completely obfuscated and forged so that they can never be returned to the spammer. And if you do reply to an unforged address you can rest assured that your email address goes straight from the "not sure if this is a working address" list to the "guaranteed working and responsive" list.

David

[Updated on: Wed, 25 April 2007 16:11]

Re: No, no, NO!  [message #42097 is a reply to message #42096] Wed, 25 April 2007 16:12 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

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Sorry -- didn't mean to be so forceful, but I have had direct experience of people doing this, both personally and professionally. It never helps.

David
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42098 is a reply to message #42094] Wed, 25 April 2007 20:55 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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A few years ago that might have worked. Spammers are organised gangs who use the spam as the source of a very lucrative income.

The best thing to do is to ignore them totally.



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Re: No, no, NO!  [message #42099 is a reply to message #42096] Wed, 25 April 2007 20:56 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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the address is "proven to be working" if it does not bounce, mainly. Best bet is to ignore them totally, as you say.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: No, no, NO!  [message #42107 is a reply to message #42096] Thu, 26 April 2007 04:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

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Thanks Deeej that's good to know. I just wish there were a way to strike back at the buggers.



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Re: No, no, NO!  [message #42108 is a reply to message #42107] Thu, 26 April 2007 06:21 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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You can join SpamCop as a "spam reporter", and report spams. It is not entirely effective, but it is immensely satisfying.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42112 is a reply to message #42042] Thu, 26 April 2007 13:51 Go to previous messageGo to next message
jack is currently offline  jack

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everyone on this site has received it, best put it in a box and shut the door & move on.

It is interesting that you all think vivian is a female, it could well be a bloke.



life is to enjoy.
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42115 is a reply to message #42112] Thu, 26 April 2007 18:25 Go to previous messageGo to next message
aqualino is currently offline  aqualino

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This is interesting. I have not rec'd this.

aqua



There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love. Washington Irving
Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42116 is a reply to message #42115] Thu, 26 April 2007 19:14 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Jedediah is currently offline  Jedediah

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Awww! I'll send you mine if you like aqua.

No, wait - jack might be right! Need to think about this ;-D

cheers



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Re: totally creepy email thats creeping me out.... help^^...  [message #42123 is a reply to message #42116] Thu, 26 April 2007 22:53 Go to previous message
aqualino is currently offline  aqualino

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An e-mail from a girl ? Sad ? YUK !!! No thanks, mate.

aqua



There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love. Washington Irving
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