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I can't believe that I'm writing this  [message #42602] Thu, 24 May 2007 05:30 Go to next message
JFR is currently offline  JFR

On fire!
Location: Israel
Registered: October 2004
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At my age! Socrates said that when your sex drive diminishes with age that you are "released from the jaws of a wild beast" and from the demands of "a cruel and despotic master". And I thought I had reached that stage.

Yesterday I was sitting beside the pool (doesn't matter where). A young man caught my eye. He must have been about 19 or 20. He was wearing coloured bermuda shorts and was - I thought - strikingly handsome. Certainly for me he was eye candy. Later, in the dining room, he came dressed in a pair of black slacks that fitted his body very snugly. They especially showed off his delectable butt to great advantage.

Why am I writing this and bothering you with it? I really don't know. Maybe it's just to share with you the fleeting pleasure at the sudden and unexpected return of the "cruel and despotic master" - even if only for one afternoon.

Forgive these inane ramblings.

J F R



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Re: I can't believe that I'm writing this  [message #42603 is a reply to message #42602] Thu, 24 May 2007 07:31 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

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JFR - been there, done that. Just enjoy…

Hugs
Nigel



I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
Re: I can't believe that I'm writing this  [message #42604 is a reply to message #42602] Thu, 24 May 2007 08:21 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

Needs to get a life!
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Nothing problematic with that, JFR. In my experience, straight men of any age spend a lot of time looking at girls -- it's even socially acceptable to own up to it!

In my case, I hope it never goes away.

Well, it would be nice if one of these delectable 19 or 20 year-olds would show some interest in me. Smile

David
icon14.gif Re: I can't believe that I'm writing this  [message #42605 is a reply to message #42602] Thu, 24 May 2007 18:31 Go to previous messageGo to next message
kupuna is currently offline  kupuna

Really getting into it
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Registered: February 2005
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You lucky man!
I'm sure he was sent there for you to enjoy the sight of him.
Not only once but twice..!
Re: I can't believe that I'm writing this  [message #42607 is a reply to message #42602] Thu, 24 May 2007 19:25 Go to previous message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

Really getting into it
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That's all well and good until you spy him in the grocery store. When you leave you find you have only half the purchases you intended to make and brands you don't care for. If I were a neurosurgeon and performing an operation, I would pity the poor patient if that young man were to be observing me in the gallery! Razz



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