A Place of Safety
I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love.
Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving!
We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
















You are here: Home > Forum > A Place of Safety > General Talk > New here
icon5.gif New here  [message #42661] Wed, 30 May 2007 19:09 Go to next message
Braden is currently offline  Braden

Getting started
Location: United States
Registered: May 2007
Messages: 25




I been watching things here for a while and thougth i would say hi.
icon12.gif Re: New here  [message #42662 is a reply to message #42661] Wed, 30 May 2007 19:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

Really getting into it
Location: dallas, Texas
Registered: August 2006
Messages: 785




Let me be the first to say HI Smile

I am Jason the only SANE one here!



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: New here  [message #42663 is a reply to message #42661] Wed, 30 May 2007 19:40 Go to previous messageGo to next message
kupuna is currently offline  kupuna

Really getting into it
Location: Norway
Registered: February 2005
Messages: 510



Hi Braden, and welcome!
I'm sure that you're going to find some good friends here!
Re: New here  [message #42664 is a reply to message #42661] Wed, 30 May 2007 21:41 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

Really getting into it
Location: U.S.A.
Registered: April 2007
Messages: 907



Hi Braden, and welcome! And Jay's right - he's the only sane one here. (I don't know how he's lasted so long!) So if you're willing to let your own sanity slip a bit, you can have a fun time here.

By the way, I notice you're email address is iomfats.org. Did you pay Timmy your fifty dollar deposit yet? ;-D



Youth crisis hot-line 866-488-7386, 24 hr (U.S.A.)
There are people who want to help you cope with being you.
Re: New here  [message #42665 is a reply to message #42664] Wed, 30 May 2007 22:20 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

Has no life at all
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796



Well, Braden wanted to be anonymous and wholly separated form any trackable stuff, so I offered. I've been hoping he'd drop by for a while. I can't do it for everyone, though.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: New here  [message #42667 is a reply to message #42661] Thu, 31 May 2007 01:54 Go to previous messageGo to next message
aqualino is currently offline  aqualino

Likes it here
Location: tampa bay,USA
Registered: August 2005
Messages: 371




Hi Braden, I'm aqua, and I am new here as well. There are lot of very nice people here. And yes, Jay is porbably the sanest one here. I hope you make many new friends here.

aqua



There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love. Washington Irving
Re: New here  [message #42668 is a reply to message #42667] Thu, 31 May 2007 02:06 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Braden is currently offline  Braden

Getting started
Location: United States
Registered: May 2007
Messages: 25




We just moved to this new town and i dont know any one here. the town is nice but i am all alone and dont have any friends now. i read some of teh stories and i liked them a lot. some of them talk about alot of the feelings i have inside me. i wish i could have someone to talk to like in the stories.
Re: New here  [message #42669 is a reply to message #42668] Thu, 31 May 2007 05:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ZeroGrav is currently offline  ZeroGrav

Really getting into it
Location: dallas, Texas
Registered: August 2006
Messages: 785




Well if you want some one to talk to shoot me a message I get back to you faster throw email tho....

not to be noisy or any thing but do u live in texas... you dont have to ans



So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
Re: New here  [message #42671 is a reply to message #42668] Thu, 31 May 2007 08:12 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

Has no life at all
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796



Advice on meeting people is different depending on your age. It also depends on the area you live in and the acceptance of or hostility towards gay people there.

I know we know each other, but the others here do not. And I know I've advised you by email before. Let them know a little more about your circumstances, though be sure not to reveal anything that you do not wish to reveal about whereabouts.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: New here  [message #42672 is a reply to message #42661] Thu, 31 May 2007 10:27 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

Needs to get a life!

Registered: March 2003
Messages: 4729



Hullo.....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
icon12.gif Re: New here  [message #42673 is a reply to message #42661] Thu, 31 May 2007 12:48 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Michael-Kent Dobison is currently offline  Michael-Kent Dobison

Likes it here
Location: South Africa - Gauteng
Registered: January 2007
Messages: 309



Hay,

Good to "meet" you, here is hoping that you have as much fun here as I do. The people are great.

So hi and hope to "see" you more often.

Luvies ME;-D



"And so the lion fell in love with the Lamb"
"What a stupid Lamb"
"What a sick, masochistic lion"
Hi, Braden  [message #42675 is a reply to message #42661] Thu, 31 May 2007 15:48 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

Needs to get a life!
Location: Berkshire, UK
Registered: March 2005
Messages: 3281



No Message Body
icon7.gif Re: New here  [message #42676 is a reply to message #42661] Thu, 31 May 2007 17:55 Go to previous messageGo to next message
simon reynolds is currently offline  simon reynolds

Toe is in the water
Location: United Kingdom
Registered: April 2003
Messages: 35




Hello, Braden - I'm Simon. Good to "meet" you.
Re: New here  [message #42677 is a reply to message #42671] Thu, 31 May 2007 19:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

Really getting into it
Location: U.S.A.
Registered: April 2007
Messages: 907



"though be sure not to reveal anything that you do not wish to reveal about whereabouts."

That is always excellent advice. Most especially if you are young. You need to talk to people for a long time to be sure of their agenda. Unfortunately there are people who pretend friendship but are just waiting to take advantage. I haven't been on this forum very long myself, but I haven't seen anything but genuine people here with empathy and sound advice. Feel free to express yourself here but just use your common sense.

Loneliness is depressing. You have friends here, virtual friends, that can ease the heartache somewhat while you develop some real, live friendships.



Youth crisis hot-line 866-488-7386, 24 hr (U.S.A.)
There are people who want to help you cope with being you.
Re: New here  [message #42678 is a reply to message #42677] Thu, 31 May 2007 22:20 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

Has no life at all
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796



We have, in the past, had people here with odd, even unpleasant, agendas. Doubtless we will do again. Always remember that, online, we present ourselves as we wish to be seen. Reality is often different. I, of course, am far more handsome in person than I am online.

But, seriously, it is only in a meeting that we discover who our online friend is. So never reveal contact details unless you do want to be contacted, and are prepared to handle the friend being unusual in reality. Having said that, most people truly will be as they appear.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: New here  [message #42679 is a reply to message #42678] Fri, 01 June 2007 01:00 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

Really getting into it
Location: U.S.A.
Registered: April 2007
Messages: 907



I, for one, am just as handsome as my avatar. Only $5,000 more and I can afford the finger removal operation! Sad)



Youth crisis hot-line 866-488-7386, 24 hr (U.S.A.)
There are people who want to help you cope with being you.
Re: New here  [message #42680 is a reply to message #42661] Fri, 01 June 2007 01:02 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Braden is currently offline  Braden

Getting started
Location: United States
Registered: May 2007
Messages: 25




I have been here in our new house for two months and so far it is very lonley. i dont like it here. all my friends are gone and i cant see them anylore because we are too far away now. my dad said it will get better but i still dont know any body here. the kids are ok i guess i just dont know what to say to them. my dad said i should go to the beach and because all the kids hang around there i will meet some frineds so he said i should try and do that on saturday.
icon14.gif Dad is pretty smart!  [message #42681 is a reply to message #42680] Fri, 01 June 2007 01:11 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

Really getting into it
Location: U.S.A.
Registered: April 2007
Messages: 907



Sounds like good advice. And I know it's scary. I hated having to make new friends and my folks moved a lot. If you're shy, like I was, you just put yourself out where the other young people are. There may be those, less shy, who will approach you. Don't try to be impressive or anything, just be yourself. They will either like you for who you are or they wont. You can't please everyone and if you are rebuffed, don't give up. You have a best friend out there waiting to meet you. He's probably tired of waiting so darn long! Smile



Youth crisis hot-line 866-488-7386, 24 hr (U.S.A.)
There are people who want to help you cope with being you.
Re: New here  [message #42685 is a reply to message #42661] Fri, 01 June 2007 18:00 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Whitewaterkid is currently offline  Whitewaterkid

Likes it here
Location: United States
Registered: May 2007
Messages: 341




Hey guys! I'm new here too. I signed up so I could leave Timmy a message for his Mom. Braden, you're not alone dude. Lot's of cool guys hang here.
Re: New here  [message #42687 is a reply to message #42685] Fri, 01 June 2007 21:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

Really getting into it
Location: U.S.A.
Registered: April 2007
Messages: 907



Hi Whitewaterkid! So tell me ... kayak or raft? Class III or + ...? Start your own thread and tell us a little about yourself.Smile



Youth crisis hot-line 866-488-7386, 24 hr (U.S.A.)
There are people who want to help you cope with being you.
Re: New here  [message #42689 is a reply to message #42685] Fri, 01 June 2007 23:48 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

Needs to get a life!
Location: Berkshire, UK
Registered: March 2005
Messages: 3281



Hi, Whitewaterkid! It's nice to hear from you too. David

[Updated on: Fri, 01 June 2007 23:49]

Re: New here  [message #42690 is a reply to message #42685] Sat, 02 June 2007 04:20 Go to previous messageGo to next message
aqualino is currently offline  aqualino

Likes it here
Location: tampa bay,USA
Registered: August 2005
Messages: 371




Welcome Whitewaterkid. Hope you enjoy it here. And I hope you enjoy having a large family. That's what this place feels like to me anyway. One large wonderful family. Growing larger by the day, too, it seems.

aqua



There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love. Washington Irving
Re: New here  [message #42692 is a reply to message #42685] Sat, 02 June 2007 08:04 Go to previous messageGo to next message
kupuna is currently offline  kupuna

Really getting into it
Location: Norway
Registered: February 2005
Messages: 510



A warm welcome to you too!
Re: New here  [message #42695 is a reply to message #42685] Sat, 02 June 2007 10:59 Go to previous message
simon reynolds is currently offline  simon reynolds

Toe is in the water
Location: United Kingdom
Registered: April 2003
Messages: 35




Hi to you, too. Is always nice to meet new people.
Previous Topic: Guilt Free Porn
Next Topic: Just fabulous ...
Goto Forum: