I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
I have never imagined that the gay community would be able to set the gay rights movement furthur back until I read this.
If one gay club/hotel can bake such a blanket decision to exclude groups based on sexuality then it opens the door to all straight businesses and venues to do the very same to gays based on the same criteria.
This is awful!
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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My understanding is that this would now be illegal in the UK under the Sexual Orientation Regulations introduced last month (after much debate!).
It will be interesting to see how this works out in practice. While I completely agree with Marc about blanket decisions to exclude any particular group from any venue on grounds of sexuality, I do also think that there needs to be "safe space" to support minority groups who may be liable to be harassed or victimised.
This forum works pretty well like that, and I don't remember that the occasional straight person who has visited has ever been a problem, at least, during the time I've been here.
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I have to agree with you too, Marc. Besides, I think it is wonderful that straight people would want to go to gay-oriented businesses. If they are there to cause a disturbance or show intolerance then that is a different story - they should be conducted off the premises. Otherwise, we need to have straight society see that they don't need to shun or fear us.
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