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Hay all hope that you are doing well.
I only have one question today and it really is quite twisted, but I need to know for a self evaluation, and I need to have something to compare my thoughts to. So this is it :
How far will you go, and what will you do, to get what you want?
Thanks Guys have a good day.
Luvies ME
"And so the lion fell in love with the Lamb"
"What a stupid Lamb"
"What a sick, masochistic lion"
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timmy
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As far as I need without harming anyone or harming myself.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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marc
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I work hard for what i have.
As fer as what I may want.... i will do what needs to be done to get it.
But one rule is universal.... to put is simply.... what goes around, comes around....
that means that if you do something untoward to get or achieve a goal that untowardness will come back to you.
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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Short of the old rule, lie, cheat or steal, I will do everything I possibly can to obtain what I want. Although if a little white lie here or there helps........... I purposly would not do anything tho that would harm anyone tho.
aqua
There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love. Washington Irving
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JimB
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I will go as far as necessary UNTIL the cost exceeds the value of what I'm after. Value is not limited to monetary; some very valuable things have little or no monetary value.
I will do whatever I can SHORT of harming myself or others, either physically or emotionally. It is important not to miss the first limitation in that sentence: what I can.
Does right versus wrong come into play also? It seems to me that wrong will always involve some kind of harm to another; if not then right vs. wrong is always the first consideration, before cost and before if I can.
JimB
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saben
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I'll do anything to get what I want. But usually I find dishonesty hurts me more in the long run, so I'm better off doing things legitimately. I'm also not overly ambitious, so I don't have to do much to get the things I want!
I am an eel, though. I am great at getting myself out of the shit, often through white lies and twisting the truth or shifting the blame away from myself to circumstances beyond my control. I can talk my way into anything and out of anything because I'm intelligent, articulate and sell myself well. At the end of the day, though, I am a genuine person and I come across as that. It sounds a bit contradictory to what I said before, but I am sincere in most things, only deceitful to cover my arse.
Look at this tree. I cannot make it blossom when it suits me nor make it bear fruit before its time [...] No matter what you do, that seed will grow to be a peach tree. You may wish for an apple or an orange, but you will get a peach.
Master Oogway
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Now I can only guess that you all wanted to know what it is that I want so bad. Well it is quite simple really, I want what every other hot blooded man wants...
Another warm body, one that will sleep next to mine, one that will love me and want to be loved. In short a lover.
Now I know what you are all thinking, it will happen when it happens and up to that point there is no point in forcing anything. But that is exactly what I mean by how far will you go to be with someone?
I know that it is terrible to say, and to even think this is... well... wrong. But I am willing to start paying for it :-[
And no I do not mean getting a man slut to come to my house once a week, but rather I have started to try and "buy" people and their love.
OMG what is wrong with me, have I really become that desperate, have I really become that shallow, have I really become that empty ??? ??
What do I do, I really do not see myself as a sexy/hot/hansom individual, or whatever you wana call it. I know that has a lot to do with self esteem, and the whole lot but I really am starting to feel quite alone.
Since I "lost" Kurt, I really have not been the same person. When he left he took a piece of me with him, and the worst thing is that he will never know what he has done, WHY ? Because stupid old me never had the back bone to tell him what he meant to me.
OMG why do we do this to ourselves, why do we dig holes that we can not get out of, or fill in ? Why do we fall so hard, when we know how much it is going to hurt when we try get up again.
All these questions I know but I have to get some answers, and I hate to say but these are answers that only I can give myself. But in this case I can not see the forest for the trees.
WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY ...
And who knows of a good ophthalmic surgeon that can fix my eyes they just will not stop leaking:'-(
And the day goes on...
"And so the lion fell in love with the Lamb"
"What a stupid Lamb"
"What a sick, masochistic lion"
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saben
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I stay with my boyfriend, even through the hard times, because I love him. We may not even really be all that suited, but I still say with him. Who's to say if that's right or wrong?
Love, and the pursuit of love, are the focal points of a lot of people's lives. Paying for love? Well, I spend a lot of money on my boyfriend. In some ways I'm doing that already.
Using people or harming people for love isn't right, but beyond that... I'm not one to judge on matters of the heart. Maybe your good traits aren't that obvious to guys you meet, maybe you do need to show them that you're a generous person. But that might attract some that don't love you and discourage those who might.
Some people might say that you need to wait for love to come to you. I say that's bullshit, I met my boyfriend in an online chat- we were both actively looking for someone. We met each other and we both made love happen, we could probably have been any two people with the most disparate interests and desires. But we both desired love and it became real. I do sometimes feel that Ryan only loves me because he'd feel lost without someone to love. But that's just paranoia. It may have started that way, but he really does love me.
There's no real love, true love, right love, wrong love. Love is an emotion, pure and simple. It is what it is. You want to experience that emotion both ways, then you do what is needed to experience that emotion. But try not to harm anyone in the process.
Look at this tree. I cannot make it blossom when it suits me nor make it bear fruit before its time [...] No matter what you do, that seed will grow to be a peach tree. You may wish for an apple or an orange, but you will get a peach.
Master Oogway
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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You will go a long way but will not take the one step that you need to take.
you will never have closure with Kurt unless you speak to him.
So speak to him
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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