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Holidays.  [message #43931] Fri, 13 July 2007 12:41 Go to next message
jack is currently offline  jack

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what is you favourite country to visit.Smile



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Re: Holidays.  [message #43934 is a reply to message #43931] Fri, 13 July 2007 12:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
NW is currently offline  NW

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jack wrote:
> what is you favourite country to visit.Smile


Probably Scotland. I spent seven very happy years living there, and have a number of very close friends from that period of my life. But the weather - at least on the East Coast - usually sucks big-time, and many parts of the country still have a narrowmindedness that is the relic of the strong Presbyterian tradition.

As a country to visit as a tourist at the moment, probably Portugal: it still has un-built-up areas, the climate is warm but not hot, and the history is fascinating.

The country that I most enjoyed visiting, and that it is now impossible to return to, was one I spent some time in when I did the "hippie trail" back in the 1970s. The father of a friend was a senior UN official there, and I got a pretty good insight into the country, between his advice, and the day-to-day contact with the people that one gets when roughing it in a clapped-out Land Rover. The scenery is utterly spectacular, the culture was - and is - typical of a cross-roads of the trade routes. Alas, the Kingdom of Afghanistan is no more.



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Re: Holidays.  [message #43935 is a reply to message #43931] Fri, 13 July 2007 13:06 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Greece, I've been there 7 times.

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Re: Holidays.  [message #43937 is a reply to message #43931] Fri, 13 July 2007 13:34 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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It depends what I want to do. I like sightseeing in old cities in Europe. I love beach and sun and sand. I had many happy holidays in Wales, north and south. I think my favourite is the one I am visiting at the time



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Re: Holidays.  [message #43940 is a reply to message #43931] Fri, 13 July 2007 15:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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I like the islands....

Europe is good....

If i had to pick the country I want to visit most..... Ontario Ca.

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Re: Holidays.  [message #43944 is a reply to message #43940] Fri, 13 July 2007 18:30 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Jedediah is currently offline  Jedediah

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Holidays? What's that?

But if i could, i'd be in England - of course!



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Re: Holidays.  [message #43948 is a reply to message #43931] Sat, 14 July 2007 09:37 Go to previous messageGo to next message
simon reynolds is currently offline  simon reynolds

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I love France, is easy to get to and I don't have to fly I just got back from two weeks in Malta, was an amazing place and I loved it, but I hated the flying
Re: Holidays.  [message #43949 is a reply to message #43931] Sat, 14 July 2007 11:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Zambezi is currently offline  Zambezi

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Ten years ago I would have implored anyone to visit Zimbabwe: reliably predictable weather, breathtaking scenery, big game hunting, the mind-boggling scale of Victoria Falls (twice the height of Niagra, more than twice the width of Horseshoe), and the colonial history/heritage. All it was missing was access to an ocean. Alas, the place has imploded under Mugabe's "rule" and although tourists are officially still welcomed you'd have to be devoid of common sense, decency, or shame to even consider it.

South Africa is a pale imitation, but because it is not landlocked it is for my money the most complete country in the world today although crime is a serious problem. SA is also a very gay-friendly country: it is, as far as I am aware, the only place in the world where gay equality is enshrined in the Constitution.

Within Europe Portugal has a charm of its own, with really nice people, good weather, and a good mix of culture, recreational distractions, amazing beaches, low crime, the least intimidating capital city in Europe, good wine and great food, all at low prices. Unlike the UK as a nation it has come to terms with the end of its imperial history and its new place in the world, and it has a sense of purpose about the future too.



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Re: Holidays.  [message #43952 is a reply to message #43949] Sat, 14 July 2007 13:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
NW is currently offline  NW

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Zambezi wrote:

> Within Europe Portugal has a charm of its own, with really nice people, good weather, and a good mix of culture, recreational distractions, amazing beaches, low crime, the least intimidating capital city in Europe, good wine and great food, all at low prices. Unlike the UK as a nation it has come to terms with the end of its imperial history and its new place in the world, and it has a sense of purpose about the future too.

I suspect the coming to terms with a post-imperial future largely came about as a result of the enormous popular support for the almost bloodless 1974 "Carnation Revolution" which finally saw off the much-loathed Fascist regime of Salazar (which had been strongly pro-colonial). My first visit to Portugal was just after Salazar left, but the Fascist regime was still in power - I remember vividly being shown the imposing hulk of a prison just offshore and being told "the best men in Portugal are on that island".

But I agree that modern Portugal is a truly fantastic country!



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Re: Holidays.  [message #43953 is a reply to message #43952] Sat, 14 July 2007 18:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Zambezi is currently offline  Zambezi

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Actually, the best men in Portugal would have been in the "Overseas Territories" - Mocambique, Angola, Guinea-Bissau along with 100,000 of their countrymen fighting and losing a war to keep their Empire. Those members of the intelligentsia not fighting in Africa were either in Macao, if they hadn't yet fled the Empire, or were working as waiters and road-sweepers in Paris and Brussels if they had.

There was indeed enormous popular support for the 1974 revolution, but it wasn't a popular "bottom up" revolution in any sense of the word: it was a coup d'etat by the military who were bearing the brunt of the colonial policy. It was only once Antonio Spinola, having seized power despite little involvement in the MFA (Movimento das Forcas Armadas - Armed Forces Movement) which actually carried out the coup, created the Council for the Revolution and stepped aside that the people really believed they weren't having one tinpot dictator replaced by another, and there was then a groundswell of public support for the Movement despite two further coups in 1975. Spinola himself was a pro-colonial and only became involved in the revolution because Marcelo Caetano (Salazar's successor from 1968 to 1974) refused to hand over power to anyone else.

What really made the difference about the nation accepting the end of its place as a major world power was the circumstance of essentially losing a war over it. The self-delusion which allows Brits to think they're still a major player simply isn't possible in Portugal. Once they woke up to the fact that they are a tiny insignificant little nation on the edge of Europe, they realised that the only way forward was European integration.

For anyone who is interested about Antonio de Oliveira Salazar he rose to power in 1932 about six months before Hitler, who was all of eight days his senior. Despite being a Fascist he managed to keep Portugal out of WW2 by adopting an appeasement stance, but the remarkable thing is how he came to power. He started out as the Finance Minister and from there controlled the budget so closely that the rest of the cabinet was essentially emasculated. The Prime Minister of the day eventually stepped aside saying that since Salazar controlled all the money he controlled the government anyway, and he was actually more popular. Cheered into power with thunderous applause from his party, he slowly appointed all his cronies into high office, dismantled the checks and balances of the democratic process without opposition in the name of constitutional reform, and quietly assumed the mantle of dictator.

Those who clapped Gordon in last month, beware. You have been warned.

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Re: Holidays.  [message #43954 is a reply to message #43931] Sun, 15 July 2007 01:13 Go to previous message
Teddy is currently offline  Teddy

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I'd have to say the favorite country I've visited was Kenya. The breathtaking sights of the migration season on the Masi Mara Game Reserve and the Great Rift Valley, the spectacular views of and from Mt. Kilamanjaro, etc. It is the one place I'd love to go back to and take someone with me to show. Crime seems to be a problem in the country. I'd much prefer to be on a group tour as there seems to be some strength in numbers, but I loved my visit there.



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