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How to say this without embarrassing Marc.....  [message #44062] Sat, 28 July 2007 22:06 Go to next message
timmy

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Nope, I can't.

Marc and anniversaries do not go well together. The trouble is that years are chock full of anniversaries that are meaningless to all except the folks who recognise them. This is one such trivial anniversary to all except Marc.

He's kind of in an emotional hole right now. Simple "cheer up" messages won't help. But he could do with friendly words. He's often on MSN, it's up to you guys to find him.

[Updated on: Sat, 28 July 2007 22:10]



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Re: How to say this without embarrassing Marc.....  [message #44067 is a reply to message #44062] Sun, 29 July 2007 10:11 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Josh is currently offline  Josh

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Hey timmy. How are you? I talk to Marc quite often on MSN. I just wish there was something I could do to cheer him up. I care about him, so of course, its my job, and if not, i'll make it my job to cheer him up.

I'm the cheer-up kind of person^^ Despite my occasional or rather quite frequent 'emo' posts on here. It's a stupid stereotype.

http://www.queersighted.com/2007/06/10/young-man-orchestrates-massive-gay-pride-parade-on-youtube/

we all need hugs every now and then^^

huggs you all at the board^_^

~Josh~


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Love who you want to.

~Josh~
Re: How to say this without embarrassing Marc.....  [message #44069 is a reply to message #44067] Sun, 29 July 2007 12:44 Go to previous message
timmy

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It's complex with anniversaries. They remind you of the whole life with the person you lost whether it's a good or a bad one. Marc is cheerful in a weird way, but very unhappy, and is beset by recurring reminders of the past which are doing his head in.


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