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Site news  [message #44721] Fri, 31 August 2007 14:22 Go to next message
timmy

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I owe everyone a news update. I took yesterday as a "Me Day" at http://www.gdsf.co.uk/ to start to get back to normal.

My mother leaves hospital on Tuesday as "walking wounded", except she has lost the ability to walk, possibly permanently, though that depends on her. I will still be going to visit her, but it will not be as stressful because it will not be in hospital.

This means I can now think, at last, about the website.

I am so grateful that my eyes are moist as I write this that everyone has understood. I know so many authors are impatient internally and patient externally. I apologise for my inability to have updated the site for so long and thank you for your extreme tolerance.

The server is somewhat temperamental at present. We are watching for final signs that it has returned to stability before I post new items, simply because I don't want to drive you to visit an empty screen. So bear with me, please, a very short while longer.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: Site news  [message #44725 is a reply to message #44721] Fri, 31 August 2007 17:21 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Whitewaterkid is currently offline  Whitewaterkid

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Dude! Great news! Take some more time for just you, okay? Everything y'all have been through takes time to get over. Not just the physical exhaustion but the emotional and spiritual drainage too. My dad would mosdef prescribe a few "Mental Health Days."

Cool that you like traction engines. There are a few left in North Carolina too. Here's a way cool pic a dude in England sent me.

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I think that's really great news about your Mom!!! Just wanted to say that again.
Re: Site news  [message #44730 is a reply to message #44725] Fri, 31 August 2007 18:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

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My Dad was a former railroad engineer. He started out as a fireman on the old coal fired steam engines. When it came time to add water to the engine's boiler, they would pull up to a water tower. It was my Dad's job to climb on top of the engine and pull the water spout down over the filler neck on the locomotive. Well, the engineer, a Swedish fellow, stopped the engine a little short of the water tower spout. My Dad held on to the spout and walked backwards as the engine crept forwards. He forgot that the hatch cover on the filler neck was open. He stepped into the open filler neck clear up to his hip! The engineer leaned out of the cab and hollered "yumpin' yiminy kid! Yust fill it up——don't tamp it down!"

[Updated on: Fri, 31 August 2007 18:30]




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Re: Site news  [message #44733 is a reply to message #44730] Fri, 31 August 2007 21:03 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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You really ought to look at http://train.spottingworld.com

I wonder if it needs an "Anecdotes" section? Perhaps we should start one, especially if you have the name of the railroad!



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: Site news  [message #44734 is a reply to message #44721] Sat, 01 September 2007 02:00 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Bill_Coleman is currently offline  Bill_Coleman

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Tim,

That's great to hear!

And you're right: We do understand -- and we do support you. We're grateful for everything you've put into the site over the last years, and we know you'll get back to it when you can. No hurry. Take as long as you need.

Undoubtedly, other authors have been sending you stories to post when you get ready again. I hope you'll take this as further encouragement, rather than a nag, but I've also been working on a new Haiku Tale. I've completed 4 out of a projected 10 or so chapters. It'll probably take a month or two for me to finish and send it to you -- given how slowly I write. (Believe me, I'm not "impatient" with you.)

Best wishes to your mother for a good recovery! I personally wasn't so fortunate in my mother -- and if yours has gotten so much loyalty from you, then she must be one fine lady.

-- Bill Coleman
Re: Site news  [message #44735 is a reply to message #44733] Sat, 01 September 2007 02:15 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

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The photographer for the U.P. Railroad would occasionally come over to our house for dinner. When they planned a calendar shoot he'd make sure my Dad was the engineer. Many of the freight trains you see in their calendar shots have my Dad in the cab. He gave him a number of photos but I guess one of my brothers inherited them. I do have a photo of him they used in an advertisement with his spiffy engineers cap, jacket and bandana. They don't wear those clothes anymore.
When I was ten my Dad took me for a day trip in the locomotive with him. Strictly against the rules but the railroad bulls would look the other way. Most of the trainmen took their kids on at least one ride. And my first summer out of high school I worked as a telegrapher/switchman at some small whistle stops.



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Re: Site news  [message #44736 is a reply to message #44735] Sat, 01 September 2007 02:33 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Whitewaterkid is currently offline  Whitewaterkid

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We only have a rural branch line when i live. It used to be part of a larger railroad called the Norfolk and Southern. A hurricane destroyed the railroad bridge across the Albemarle Sound and later it got turned into a county road bridge. When i went with my family on vacation to Canada a couple of times we went through Baltimore and Washington and Philadelphia and I couldn't believe the trains they have there.

I have this secret fantasy of making love in a sleeping car. Do the railroads still have sleeping cars? I'll have to Google Amtrack.LOL.
Re: Site news  [message #44737 is a reply to message #44733] Sat, 01 September 2007 02:46 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Whitewaterkid is currently offline  Whitewaterkid

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Whoa dude! Sites likethis are dangerous for me! I fall into them and get mesmerized and forget all about calculus homework!
Re: Site news  [message #44738 is a reply to message #44737] Sat, 01 September 2007 04:07 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

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>There is something very, very askew in a society that uses 16,000,000 barrels of crude oil to process the plastic bottles in which common water is sold.

It all works out in the end though, whitewaterkid. The plastic is collected, ground up and reprocessed by McDonalds as Big Macs.::-)



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icon6.gif Re: Site news  [message #44741 is a reply to message #44737] Sat, 01 September 2007 14:33 Go to previous messageGo to next message
JimB is currently offline  JimB

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Ahh, calculus homework, the thought brings back fond memories of days long past. It was a struggle but my real downfall in math was what followed, I think it was called differential equations. It caused a change in career plans and I'm better for it.

JimB
Re: Site news  [message #44748 is a reply to message #44741] Sat, 01 September 2007 21:32 Go to previous messageGo to next message
davethegnome is currently offline  davethegnome

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I think my downfall in my will be Complex Analysis.



It's always the old to lead us to the war
It's always the young to fall
Now look at all we've won with the sabre and the gun
Tell me is it worth it all
~Phil Ochs "I Aint Marching Anymore"
Re: Site news  [message #44749 is a reply to message #44721] Sat, 01 September 2007 23:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
daffey44 is currently offline  daffey44

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For those of you interested in rail travel, I found an amateur travelogue about a train trip up the Pacific coast of the U.S. and then across Canada. It's at http://www.rossde.com/Canada_trip/index.html

In the section about traveling between Vancouver and Montreal, scroll to 9 August and click on the thumbnail of an old fire truck. There are two pages of photographs, including some photos of steam-powered farm tractors.
Re: Site news  [message #44750 is a reply to message #44736] Sat, 01 September 2007 23:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
huwar is currently offline  huwar

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Amtrak and Via (Canada) have sleeping cars with a variety of sleeping accommodations from single units to bed-sitters and very comfortable they are for whatever you will. The conductor will not be pleased to find two sleeping in a single. But if you book a section (upper and lower berth) no one will notice if there are two in the roomy-enough-for-a-good-cuddle lower one. There are showers, too.



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Re: Site news  [message #44757 is a reply to message #44721] Mon, 03 September 2007 10:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I have just been able, in a small way, to restart posting. It will be a little jerky at first, but I will get back on top of it as soon as I can.



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icon6.gif Re: Site news  [message #44765 is a reply to message #44757] Mon, 03 September 2007 14:46 Go to previous messageGo to next message
JimB is currently offline  JimB

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Cool, Timmy. I bet there is a ton of stuff awaiting your attention. I would ask for my favorites first, but the only fair way is FIFO.

JimB
Re: Site news  [message #44767 is a reply to message #44765] Mon, 03 September 2007 14:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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If only I could recall which came first



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Re: Site news  [message #44770 is a reply to message #44757] Mon, 03 September 2007 21:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
PeterSJC is currently offline  PeterSJC

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Bravo, and thank you! There is great pleasure in anticipation, and even greater pleasure in seeing a promise fulfilled. We are all greatly in debt to you.



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Re: Site news  [message #44772 is a reply to message #44770] Mon, 03 September 2007 22:09 Go to previous message
timmy

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There will be nothing on Tuesday. My mother comes home from hospital and I am running a load of heavy errands. I am unsure of Wednesday, but we WILL get there again.



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