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I am going to tell my friend Alex that I am gay tomorrow at when we r having lunch... so i guess this going to be good or really bad.
Its driving me up a wall
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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i know it's ripping me apart i was so ready to tell my friends to day and held back, and when they ACTUALLY asked if i was gay or bi i felt something crush when i looked down said no and kept walking, i feel terrible and theyre so accepting i'm like "what if i was gay huh what if thi guy was my boyfriend" and she just smiled and saod " that would be cool i always wanted a gay friend" and i was screaming at my self to just say it
What A Wonderful catariciture of intamacy,
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Try not to be hard on yourself or even disappointed in yourself for chickening out. You need to feel comfortable and "in the moment" when you divulge something this important. Obviously there was something in the situation that didn't feel right or sit right with you subconsciously. For instance, can you rely on all of these people to keep your confidence and not blab it about the school? What may have felt like cowardice may have been gut instinct. There will be other opportunities.
Youth crisis hot-line 866-488-7386, 24 hr (U.S.A.)
There are people who want to help you cope with being you.
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Please let us know how it turns out, Jay. I will have my fingers crossed for you.
Youth crisis hot-line 866-488-7386, 24 hr (U.S.A.)
There are people who want to help you cope with being you.
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Jay, remember, if they cant accept that your gay, they were never that good a friend anyway. A real friend wont care, you just are and your thier friend.
If you stand for Freedom, but you wont stand for war, then you dont stand for anything worth fighting for.
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Hey Jay,
Long time...
Well as you know we will always be here to help where we can but like Paul says, do not rush it. Only do it when it feels right for you.
I am keeping my fingres crossed, not that I need to you will be just fine;-) But let us know how it goes.
Luvies ME;-D
"And so the lion fell in love with the Lamb"
"What a stupid Lamb"
"What a sick, masochistic lion"
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Benji
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Good Luck!! let us know how it worked out!
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it went well. she was like "well duh....."
J
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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Aah! It's Alex Alexandra, not Alexander. Glad it went so well.
Hugs
Nigel
[Updated on: Fri, 07 September 2007 07:44]
I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.
…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
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Benji
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Whew! LOL congrats!
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>she was like "well duh....."
Har, har, har! So, did she say how long she'd suspicioned you? She probably figured you were too 'real' of a person to be straight. That's why women say "why do all the good ones turn out to be gay?"
Youth crisis hot-line 866-488-7386, 24 hr (U.S.A.)
There are people who want to help you cope with being you.
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