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So much for progress ...  [message #45343] Wed, 26 September 2007 09:37 Go to next message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

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Anglicans to halt gay ordination
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/americas/7013552.stm

Does the Anglican church think it's still the middle of the 20th century?

In the UK, at least, I am not sure why it does not infringe the rights of a gay person to refuse to allow them to be ordained, when they would otherwise be perfectly suitable in all other respects. Is this something that simply hasn't yet been tested in court, or is there a reason it doesn't apply? (Legal experts -- tBP?)

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Re: So much for progress ...  [message #45347 is a reply to message #45343] Wed, 26 September 2007 10:25 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Deeej wrote:
> Anglicans to halt gay ordination
> http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/americas/7013552.stm
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> Does the Anglican church think it's still the middle of the 20th century?
>
> Yes they are,

in 10/20 years time all the old thinking cronies that hold office with in the faiths would have moved on. and a new educated team will be in place.
as for the followers they will except the gay/lesbian community because it will be totally the norm to be either/or. the followers of these churches will be made up of different sexualities. mainly due to my other post, where the young kids
are educated on gay sex if not by the school it is by society accepting, in the u.k. anyway.



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Re: So much for progress ...  [message #45348 is a reply to message #45347] Wed, 26 September 2007 10:27 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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oh my previous post should read gay gender not gay sex.



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Re: So much for progress ...  [message #45349 is a reply to message #45343] Wed, 26 September 2007 10:54 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Ordination is not a right..... it is a priviledge bestowed by the church.



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Re: So much for progress ...  [message #45351 is a reply to message #45348] Wed, 26 September 2007 11:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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jack said,
>oh my previous post should read gay gender not gay sex.

Being gay is not a gender. It is an orientation. We don't stop being male or female because we are gay.

You are right that hopefully the older generation will be pushed out, as many do have outdated views.

I have two anxieties, though:

i. It is very important that young people in the church don't learn to imitate the attitudes of the older generations, for the purposes of succeeding in the church. If they do, societal progress will not propagate through to those inside it who are responsible for changing policy.

ii. The church continues to take into account the very outdated opinions of some of its offshoots, particularly in Africa. If African opinions don't change (and they may not for a long time) these may end up holding the church back many decades, making it increasingly out of touch and irrelevant to people in liberal societies like the UK. Personally, I see progress as much more important than unity: the Anglican communion is huge and ungainly already. If the African churches wish to break away, that is their decision -- but compromising British and American values for the sake of historical ties is both backward and absurd.

David
Re: So much for progress ...  [message #45353 is a reply to message #45349] Wed, 26 September 2007 11:07 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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You could say that it is a privilege to be allowed by a proprietor to enter and patronise his shop. But it would still be illegal if he refused to serve you on the basis of your sexuality (in the UK).

The Church of England (the English branch of the Anglican communion) is a national church. If you wanted to rise to certain positions within the British establishment you would need to enter it rather than to find an alternative church that would accept you. This makes it a special case.

[Updated on: Wed, 26 September 2007 11:10]

Re: So much for progress ...  [message #45357 is a reply to message #45351] Wed, 26 September 2007 11:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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o.k stand corrected.



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Re: So much for progress ...  [message #45358 is a reply to message #45351] Wed, 26 September 2007 11:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Within any church heirarchy policy makers are promoted into positions of policy making by adhering to the status quo.

Dark horses dont make it to the top..... they get sent off to the lowest parishes.

Change within a church requires altering the views of those in power not by waiting for a bright young savior..... after all, Christ has come and gone... and one was surely enough.::-)



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Re: So much for progress ...  [message #45366 is a reply to message #45343] Wed, 26 September 2007 15:42 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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As a Recovering Christian and a Recovering Episcopalian I can't stop wondering why the Episcopal Church worries so much about The Worldwide Anglican Communion. Since when has the Worldwide Anglican Communion done anything for the Episcopal Chruch except take money from it, so that the African bishops can drive around in new Mercedes?

It's so tempest in a teapot about an outdated and mythical belief system anyway. Who really cares anymore?
Re: So much for progress ...  [message #45386 is a reply to message #45343] Wed, 26 September 2007 17:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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>In the UK, at least, I am not sure why it does not infringe the rights of a gay person to refuse to allow them to be ordained, when they would otherwise be perfectly suitable in all other respects. Is this something that simply hasn't yet been tested in court, or is there a reason it doesn't apply? (Legal experts -- tBP?)

I am certainly no legal expert. But I am aware that there is a reason such a decision could not be decided in a U.S. court of law. The separation of church and state makes religion a very muddy thing here. It was decided that since the Boy Scouts are a religious organization, they are within their legal rights to exclude homosexuals. I'm sure the same would hold true of churches excluding us in any capacity - as clergy or even as members.

I say religion is a muddy legal issue here because there are certain instances where the state can interfere in religious practices. Satanists cannot sacrifice humans or animals, legally, on their alter because there are laws in effect against murder and against inhumane treatment of animals. Until Federal laws are enacted to protect homosexuals against all forms of discrimination, the state has no legal standing. These are my own thoughts on the matter, and I repeat - I am certainly no legal expert.



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Help me Jesus, that is, if you're really there....  [message #45397 is a reply to message #45343] Wed, 26 September 2007 18:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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A Reform Jewish Perspective  [message #45408 is a reply to message #45343] Wed, 26 September 2007 19:04 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Those of you who have become closer friends with me and with whom I have exchanged email know that my best friend is Jewish, and he was the first boy with whom I ever did anything sexual. My girlfriend happens to be Jewish as well. He directed me to this which I thought might be interesting to the general readership.

http://urj.org/ask/homosexuality/
Re: A Reform Jewish Perspective  [message #45409 is a reply to message #45408] Wed, 26 September 2007 19:11 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Very good, thank you for posting that. Also may I point out that at no time did Jesus ever bring up the subject of homosexuality even tho it was very prominant in that time.



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icon6.gif Re: A Reform Jewish Perspective  [message #45410 is a reply to message #45408] Wed, 26 September 2007 19:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I once asked my Rabbi about sin of Sodom & Gommorah, his answer surprised me. He stated that the real sin was that the men of those towns were about to commit the act of rape, against the wishes of the strangers. Of course he is a reformed Rabbi, but still it wasn't the homosexual act, it was the rape that was viewed as a sin.
Re: A Reform Jewish Perspective  [message #45411 is a reply to message #45410] Wed, 26 September 2007 19:30 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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In the customes of that time and the place, Hospitality to strangers was damn near a law. If a stranger came into your tent or town and he wasnt offered water and food and a place to rest that was paramount to murder. Even today that is practiced amoung the nomadic tribes. The sin of Sodom and Gamora was inhospitality and had really nothing to do with sex.



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Re: A Reform Jewish Perspective  [message #45412 is a reply to message #45408] Wed, 26 September 2007 20:06 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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It might interest some to note that, just as there are reformed Jewish congregations, there are reformed Christian congregations as well. I belong to the United Church of Christ U.C.C. whose path in accepting gay men, lesbians and the transgendered has pretty much paralleled reformed Judaism. This is also beginning to happen in other denominations as well. It is a slow process however.



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Re: A Reform Jewish Perspective  [message #45415 is a reply to message #45412] Wed, 26 September 2007 20:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Paul obviously you have never been south where the independant churches of Christ hang out. They are kissing cousins with the Southern Baptist, oh except that they are the only ones going to heaven. lol



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I would also agree with that!!
Re: So much for progress ...  [message #45424 is a reply to message #45386] Wed, 26 September 2007 20:38 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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The church is some kind of exempt organisation. It may discriminate.



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Re: A Reform Jewish Perspective  [message #45425 is a reply to message #45415] Wed, 26 September 2007 20:50 Go to previous message
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I guess I should amend my post to say that such reformation is taking place in the Mainstream denominations. The Fundamentalist groups will obviously be the ones to hold onto their dogmatic beliefs the longest. I am surrounded by Fundamentalists in Idaho as well. They won't change in yours or my lifetime.



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