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I might be sticking my nose where it dont belong  [message #45426] Wed, 26 September 2007 20:51 Go to next message
Roger is currently offline  Roger

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Lets see if I have this right. Curtis has a local bf now named Jeff. I get the impression that Jonny (white water kid) had something to do with getting them together.

Am I right or is old age setting in.



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Re: I might be sticking my nose where it dont belong  [message #45435 is a reply to message #45426] Thu, 27 September 2007 01:37 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Whitewaterkid is currently offline  Whitewaterkid

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Not to tell tails out of school, but Curt and Jeff have been best friends since first grade if not before. Curt had fallen in love with him, and like all of us who have had that happen, was wondering if the feelings were returned.

He was in a depression because he loved jeff so much as a friend he didn't want to lose him or risk losing him if he came out and told Jeff about his feelings. I offered to be the go between, and Curt gave me Jeff's email.

I wrote to Jeff, and got a reply I might frame some day, and long story short, he was having the same doubts as Curt.

When Jeff went to Curt's house to meet up for the walk to school, it all came out of both of them. It's a wonder they got off the couch.

Curt jsut needed a little confidence in himself, that's all. He really is a funny, witty, smart, interesting and deep-thinking guy. We both live in small Southern towns that, in his words, "Aren't exactly ate up with things to do." ROFLMAO

Actually, when I heard the news about them i got too carried away and fell in my pool with all my cloths on and now my cell is ruined, but it was worth it.

Sorry Curtster, I didn't mean to steal your thunder but I'm a sucker for spreading good news.

Love to all
Jonny
xoxo
Re: I might be sticking my nose where it dont belong  [message #45439 is a reply to message #45435] Thu, 27 September 2007 02:22 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Curtis one who makes noise is currently offline  Curtis one who makes noise

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Hey go for it. Love U



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Re: I might be sticking my nose where it dont belong  [message #45440 is a reply to message #45439] Thu, 27 September 2007 03:39 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Whitewaterkid is currently offline  Whitewaterkid

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Love u 2 stud boy.
Re: I might be sticking my nose where it dont belong  [message #45450 is a reply to message #45435] Thu, 27 September 2007 12:00 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I guess I am totally, overwhelmingly, achingly jealous.

The only advice I have is to take it slow and make it work through bad times as well as good times. And never do anything you don't want to do. And ask him for the things you would like to try, knowing and respecting that he may say "no, thank you".



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: I might be sticking my nose where it dont belong  [message #45451 is a reply to message #45450] Thu, 27 September 2007 13:20 Go to previous message
Curtis one who makes noise is currently offline  Curtis one who makes noise

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Thank you Timmy. We have been discussing things and we know each of us may have limits and we will respect those.

Its off to school

Curt



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