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Curtis one who makes noise is currently offline  Curtis one who makes noise

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Sweet dreams till sunbeams find you......
Re: this was a mistake  [message #45664 is a reply to message #45663] Tue, 02 October 2007 16:31 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Whitewaterkid is currently offline  Whitewaterkid

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We're in the cafeteria so we don't have much time, but calm down and tell us what's the matter. Donny's right here too and he wants to know as well.
Re: this was a mistake  [message #45665 is a reply to message #45663] Tue, 02 October 2007 16:40 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Whitewaterkid is currently offline  Whitewaterkid

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Little bro, just for the record, you know Donny and I think you're great, but when you post something like this, honestly it sounds like whining and trying to get the other guys to post and beg you to tell them what's wrong. If there's something wrong, then just say it up front. Like you want everybody to say..."Oh, pooor youuu, PLEASE tell us what's wrong so we can cry too."

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Re: this was a mistake  [message #45667 is a reply to message #45665] Tue, 02 October 2007 17:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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Curtis,

Nothing ever is that bad. I know those are trite words but take it from me. I know how bad things can seem... but thats all they are, things that seem bad...

Take a few seconds and a few deep breaths and calm down.... Have a good cry if you need it, and then tell us what has yuou so upset.

If you need to talk, my IM is on my profile and im here for the next 3 hours or so....

Marc



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: this was a mistake  [message #45668 is a reply to message #45663] Tue, 02 October 2007 17:12 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Curtis one who makes noise is currently offline  Curtis one who makes noise

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Your right and Im sorry I posted anyting here. I dont want anyone asking what happened. Guess that was just another mistake. Seems Im good at that.



Sweet dreams till sunbeams find you......
Re: this was a mistake  [message #45669 is a reply to message #45668] Tue, 02 October 2007 17:57 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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Curtis,

Please, lighten up a little on yourself.... We all care about you....

We just want to help....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Between classes and wrestling.  [message #45670 is a reply to message #45663] Tue, 02 October 2007 19:02 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Whitewaterkid is currently offline  Whitewaterkid

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Curt, if you want to talk, talk. Eldon and I won't get home until later, and we're both got tons of homework and speaking for myself, I won't be on the IM until after ten, if even then. So post up what's bothering you and let the guys talk about it with you.

Marc is right y'know. Very little in life that we go all dramatic over is really all that bad. :-*
Re: Between classes and wrestling.  [message #45673 is a reply to message #45670] Tue, 02 October 2007 22:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Curtis one who makes noise is currently offline  Curtis one who makes noise

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Yeh, I got things to do to



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Well....  [message #45675 is a reply to message #45673] Tue, 02 October 2007 22:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ChowanFarmBoy is currently offline  ChowanFarmBoy

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Well yea Curt, we all have things to do.

But you can't in all fairness post something that says some unspecified terrible thing happened or you saw some unspecified terrible thing, and then say you sish you were dead, and then just vanish without any explanation. If you want friends, and I think you made that plain, then you have to treat guys like friends and talk to them like friends.

I left wrestling practice early so I could get home to see if you had any news. Jon was still there when I left at 5:30 working with that freshman who he mentors and two other freshmen. He promised Debbie he'd help her with her trig, and then he'll be home.

I have chores to do then supper and homework. Hope we can talk later.

You know we think about you dude and that we're concerned. Don't be afraid to talk.

Eldon
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Re: Between classes and wrestling.  [message #45676 is a reply to message #45673] Tue, 02 October 2007 22:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Roger is currently offline  Roger

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Curt I dont know you other than from the board, I have had the pleasure of emailing your friend Jonny. Whatever you do whatever is wrong dont shut out your friends. I know that your friends wont abandon you. Talk to them ok?



If you stand for Freedom, but you wont stand for war, then you dont stand for anything worth fighting for.
Re: Between classes and wrestling.  [message #45679 is a reply to message #45676] Tue, 02 October 2007 23:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ChowanFarmBoy is currently offline  ChowanFarmBoy

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Don't worry Roger. I just got off the IM with Curt, and he has had a lover's argument with Jeff and he's now going to patch it up and get things straight between them. God, I'm glad Jon isn't in on all this because he has ZERO tolerance for drama. His approach is "If you fuck up, face it, own it, and get it right. If you want sympathy for being stupid, go elsewhere." LOL. Not that Curt and Jeff were stupid, but it had the potential to turn into a real hand-wringing whine-a-thon. Even I hate those!
Re: Between classes and wrestling.  [message #45682 is a reply to message #45679] Wed, 03 October 2007 00:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Roger is currently offline  Roger

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Im glad to hear that. Curt seems like a nice young man. Glad there making up.



If you stand for Freedom, but you wont stand for war, then you dont stand for anything worth fighting for.
Re: Between classes and wrestling.  [message #45683 is a reply to message #45679] Wed, 03 October 2007 06:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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All relationships have fights. All. It's how you make up and how fast you make up that's important, followed by never, ever holding a grudge.

Friendship's hard work. Partnership's harder work. But it's worth it.



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Fights and making up.  [message #45687 is a reply to message #45683] Wed, 03 October 2007 13:06 Go to previous message
ChowanFarmBoy is currently offline  ChowanFarmBoy

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basically, this is what Jon told them. Jon had a rough day yesterday, with school and wrestling and getting bitched out by his girlfriend Debbie, so when he got home and found two Whine-O-Grams in his email from the two of them he sort of went ballistic on them. Curt told me late last night they felt like they got the skin flayed off them! Poor Jon, he doesn't handle drama very well. especially what he calls "this middle school bullshit from two ditzy princesses!!"

All's well that has ended well.
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