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Sometimes..... just sometimes....  [message #46341] Fri, 26 October 2007 14:06 Go to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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a think happens and like a freight train, there is no way to stop it....

I am about to loose my dad.... he is leaving for florida and I will never see him again....

I feel depression gripping with a vengence....

whatever......



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: Sometimes..... just sometimes....  [message #46342 is a reply to message #46341] Fri, 26 October 2007 15:22 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Marc........your not loosing your dad. He will always be a phone call away. Im sure the move to Florida is a health reason. I know you want to see him healthy and live as long as he can. What part of Florida is he moving to?

Dont let depression get to you. Go see him and talk to him.

love and huggggsss
Roger



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Re: Sometimes..... just sometimes....  [message #46346 is a reply to message #46341] Fri, 26 October 2007 16:34 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I know flying is not your forte and that Florida is a long way form you, but you will see him again whenever you or he are determined enough to make a visit.



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Re: Sometimes..... just sometimes....  [message #46348 is a reply to message #46346] Fri, 26 October 2007 17:07 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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it will not happen



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
What...??  [message #46349 is a reply to message #46348] Fri, 26 October 2007 17:35 Go to previous messageGo to next message
ChowanFarmBoy is currently offline  ChowanFarmBoy

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Marc, can you explain to me how flying "is not your forte" when just the other night you were on the IM with me, and going on about mechanics changing out the left engine of some private jet you get to use, and we talked about the Northeastern Regional Airport near where I live, and we were talking about runway length for this jet, and you were thinking about "flying in" for a visit to the Outer Banks.... and now flying "is not your forte?"

[Updated on: Fri, 26 October 2007 17:36]

Re: What...??  [message #46351 is a reply to message #46349] Fri, 26 October 2007 17:42 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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I do it...... but my sinus thingies cause the most brain drilling migranes. The doctor says it has to do with barometric pressure and all that.... You'd have to sit thru a ride with my nose to know what I mean...


In turth I fly only when I absolutly have to get somewhere.... I don't do it lightly....

As far as my dad goes.... we get along really well.... it's just that visits are never more than 10 minutes at a time.... It would be a waste to go there just for that....

[Updated on: Fri, 26 October 2007 17:44]




Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: What...??  [message #46352 is a reply to message #46349] Fri, 26 October 2007 17:49 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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Actually, it was some sort of bearing set that was changed....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: Sometimes..... just sometimes....  [message #46355 is a reply to message #46341] Fri, 26 October 2007 18:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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I know Im being a dink.... but he's my dad and he needs to be ...... well, for lack of a better word..... watched.....

He does nutty things..... not too nutty..... but nutty enough......

I just wanted him near me.....

Is that asking for too much?

I guess it is.....

Oh well.... I guess I'll have to go visit him down there in that bug infested, lizzard filled, snake pit of an alagator hell that is known as Florida.....

At least he will be close to Cocoa Beach.... and we all know what is at Cocoa Beach..... Surprised Surprised Surprised Surprised Surprised Surprised

[Updated on: Fri, 26 October 2007 18:04]




Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: Sometimes..... just sometimes....  [message #46358 is a reply to message #46355] Fri, 26 October 2007 19:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
CallMePaul is currently offline  CallMePaul

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>At least he will be close to Cocoa Beach.... and we all know what is at Cocoa Beach

Ummm... hot chocolate?



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Re: What...??  [message #46365 is a reply to message #46351] Fri, 26 October 2007 20:31 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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Then you each need decent webcams, perhaps?



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Re: Sometimes..... just sometimes....  [message #46367 is a reply to message #46358] Fri, 26 October 2007 21:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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Actually, one of the largest online gay erotic sites is based there......



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: What...??  [message #46368 is a reply to message #46365] Fri, 26 October 2007 21:27 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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Getting there is not the problem..... thats just a phone call away...... Its going there and getting more than a 10 minute audience thats the problem.....

I'll work it out..... and it's only like a 2 hour flight from here.....



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
Re: What...??  [message #46370 is a reply to message #46368] Fri, 26 October 2007 23:03 Go to previous message
timmy

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Part of the "live audience time" is making him "be the host" and allocating a couple of days of quality time for you and him, ideally sharing things you each like to do.

[Updated on: Fri, 26 October 2007 23:03]




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