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Jonathan and I  [message #46396] Sun, 28 October 2007 13:59 Go to next message
ChowanFarmBoy is currently offline  ChowanFarmBoy

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There are several younger guys who lurk on the Forum and never post anything because they are intimidated by the other members. However sometimes they do write to we other young guys privately, and for those of them who do, and who know what's been happening this past week in our lives, we wanted to say that things are now totally patched up. We're lovers again, the physical damage we inflicted on each other is mending. Thanks for your concern, especially to Curtis, and to Jeff, who showed the way forward.

Curtis, you were so right... communication is the key in any relationship.

Jon and Donny
Re: Jonathan and I  [message #46400 is a reply to message #46396] Sun, 28 October 2007 14:28 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Curtis one who makes noise is currently offline  Curtis one who makes noise

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I wish you could know the joy I felt knowing you guys made up..Its is difficult to see your best friends and those you love so much have a falling out. Im so glad that things are mending, both the emotional and the physical.

Like I said when Jeff and I made up. The making up part can be very excitting. ;-D



Sweet dreams till sunbeams find you......
Re: Jonathan and I  [message #46401 is a reply to message #46400] Sun, 28 October 2007 14:53 Go to previous messageGo to next message
SethM is currently offline  SethM

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I dont know you but I know of you. Im glad you two are back together.

Curtis is extra special and so is Jeff. Im glad I got to meet them and know what its like to be with other gay boys. I know Im going to embarrass Curtis but dudes he is so damn cute and full of life.

All the boys our age who just lurk. Dont be intimidated by anyone on here. My opinion is just as important as anyones here.



just me
Re: Jonathan and I  [message #46402 is a reply to message #46401] Sun, 28 October 2007 14:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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The step of moving from lurking to posting can feel huge. It's a part of saying to yourself "I am probably gay", which is a big step. Feel welcome, never feel pressured.



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Eldon and I...  [message #46408 is a reply to message #46396] Mon, 29 October 2007 20:37 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Whitewaterkid is currently offline  Whitewaterkid

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I'd like to add my thanks to those Donny has already written. Things were pretty dicey there for about a week, and too much testosterone and too much foolish male pride was getting in the way too many important feelings. One hint for the other guys... If you ever make up, don't do it standing in the rain on the school parking lot. As the son of a physician I know you can't catch a cold from being wet and chilled to the bone, but we both caught colds anyway. And ya know what? It would have been worth catching pneumonia to feel his arms around me again.
Re: Eldon and I...  [message #46410 is a reply to message #46408] Mon, 29 October 2007 20:56 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Curtis one who makes noise is currently offline  Curtis one who makes noise

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is just to love and be loved in return

The boy with green hair
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Re: Jonathan and I  [message #46413 is a reply to message #46401] Mon, 29 October 2007 23:08 Go to previous message
ProfZodiac is currently offline  ProfZodiac

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Except for the part where you're wearing a Chestnut Hill College hat.

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