I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
Location: United States
Registered: June 2005
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I truly believe that having sex (with male or female) when you're just in lust and not at all in love is a big mistake if you're looking for a long lasting relationship. Sex alone can get to be old hat fast. Sex can also get a little old hat in a loving relationship, but if you are truly in love with another person you don't need sex to keep you close and careing. Sex with someone you love is a most wonderful thing, but it's not the glue that holds you together, it's the love. Love and romance go hand in glove. Lustful sex on the other hand tends to make people play a deceptive/romantic kind of game, but when the truth of the lack of feeling and careing is fully exposed there's nothing left, not even ashes.