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Welcome back Eldon!!!!  [message #48109] Tue, 08 January 2008 13:39 Go to next message
Whitewaterkid is currently offline  Whitewaterkid

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Yay! Eldon re-registered here! He was mad about the fighting and all the bickering, and especially mad at one particular person who never had anything good to say about anything, so he left for a while, but now he told me he's re-registered. That one person seems to have left the forum now and I can't say I'll miss him either.
Re: Welcome back Eldon!!!!  [message #48113 is a reply to message #48109] Tue, 08 January 2008 14:54 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Benji is currently offline  Benji

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Welcome Back!!
Re: Welcome back Eldon!!!!  [message #48115 is a reply to message #48109] Tue, 08 January 2008 14:56 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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Whitewaterkid wrote:
> Yay! Eldon re-registered here! He was mad about the fighting and all the bickering, and especially mad at one particular person who never had anything good to say about anything, so he left for a while, but now he told me he's re-registered. That one person seems to have left the forum now and I can't say I'll miss him either.

I'm sorry Eldon left for that reason and I am glad he is back for his own reasons.

I do want to pick holes, though, in what you just said. I will miss the person who appears to have left, if he has left. It is the behaviour I am happy to lose, though, not the person.


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It is comments such as this......  [message #48118 is a reply to message #48109] Tue, 08 January 2008 15:40 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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That reinforces the fact that I am not on any level wanted here......

Rest assured..... you get your wish!

[Updated on: Tue, 08 January 2008 15:50]



Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
This upsets me  [message #48122 is a reply to message #48118] Tue, 08 January 2008 16:30 Go to previous message
timmy

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I am not replying to Marc in particular, I am replying to the thread in general.

Once I have replied I will close the thread. I'm fed up with rows and attacks and disappointments.

Let's get this abundantly clear, please. That Eldon is back is a good thing, because he wants to be here.

Poking Marc with a stick was not a good thing. That type of thing must stop. How can a behaviour improve if folks always poke at it.

Marc's reply, while understandable, and actually not at all abusive, was also a thing I would prefer not to have had posted.

So, in order to take a different tack, and to seek to prevent a row, I am closing what should have been a pleasant thread.


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