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hi all  [message #48300] Sun, 13 January 2008 16:05 Go to next message
Senne is currently offline  Senne

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i know ive been spamming up the board alot these last two days
I'll stop and not post again if y'all want me too

[Updated on: Sun, 13 January 2008 16:38]

Re: you're in love, I think.  [message #48302 is a reply to message #48300] Sun, 13 January 2008 16:11 Go to previous messageGo to next message
acam is currently offline  acam

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Dear Jordan,

I reckon the evidence is pretty good that you're in love or maybe just infatuated or something. But seeing this makes me feel a bit as if I'm joining in on something you might want to keep private.

Do you really want all and sundry to comment?

Love,
Anthony
Re: you're in love, I think.  [message #48304 is a reply to message #48302] Sun, 13 January 2008 18:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I think it is not so much being in love, more that Jordan is perplexed about something (which I am not party to). I think we probably should leave this between the folks involved, safe in the knowledge that they can ask anyone else here for their thoughts more directly if they want to.

Sometimes posting is the only way we feel we can contact someone if we are not sure that our messages are getting through



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Re: hi all  [message #48305 is a reply to message #48300] Sun, 13 January 2008 18:41 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I think, probably, that he will answer when he is ready, and potentially privately. I don't say this either with any knowledge of what is troubling you, or in any way wanting to discourage you from posting.

Sometimes the next move has to be in the hands of someone else. This is something I had to learn and still wish were not true.



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Re: hi all  [message #48306 is a reply to message #48305] Sun, 13 January 2008 19:04 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Senne is currently offline  Senne

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timmy,
im not in love oh my no...
just confused...
hoping upon all things i fixed my friendship with eldon is all
Re: hi all  [message #48307 is a reply to message #48306] Sun, 13 January 2008 20:45 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I hope it is fixed as well. There is very little worth falling out about permanently. One can never have too many friends.

A good friendship will stand a row, deep anger, even disappointment. Good friends can sulk a while, stay apart a while, but work out that the friendship is more than the incident that strained it.



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Re: hi all  [message #48308 is a reply to message #48307] Sun, 13 January 2008 22:02 Go to previous message
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Dear Jordan,

Sorry if I spole out of turn. I may have read too much into the poem.

Love,
Anthony
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