I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
I reckon the evidence is pretty good that you're in love or maybe just infatuated or something. But seeing this makes me feel a bit as if I'm joining in on something you might want to keep private.
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I think it is not so much being in love, more that Jordan is perplexed about something (which I am not party to). I think we probably should leave this between the folks involved, safe in the knowledge that they can ask anyone else here for their thoughts more directly if they want to.
Sometimes posting is the only way we feel we can contact someone if we are not sure that our messages are getting through
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I think, probably, that he will answer when he is ready, and potentially privately. I don't say this either with any knowledge of what is troubling you, or in any way wanting to discourage you from posting.
Sometimes the next move has to be in the hands of someone else. This is something I had to learn and still wish were not true.
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I hope it is fixed as well. There is very little worth falling out about permanently. One can never have too many friends.
A good friendship will stand a row, deep anger, even disappointment. Good friends can sulk a while, stay apart a while, but work out that the friendship is more than the incident that strained it.