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Bi-Polar  [message #48820] Fri, 01 February 2008 22:07 Go to next message
bon is currently offline  bon

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I wonder if anyone here is suffering this? It's something I am having to learn about, and wondered if there is any advise around here? I'm being lumped with tablets, and nightmareish days. Can anyone tell me anything me more about suffering this?
Re: Bi-Polar  [message #48821 is a reply to message #48820] Fri, 01 February 2008 22:25 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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We have bi-polar people here.

I have a question for you. Do you think bipolarity is one end of a scale, such the one end is "not at all" and the other end is "totally"?

I suspect it may be, because I suspect that we are almost all of us not at the "not at all" end



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Re: Bi-Polar  [message #48822 is a reply to message #48821] Fri, 01 February 2008 22:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
bon is currently offline  bon

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Hmm where do I start?

My family put me into a rehab centre thinking I was a drunk. I was. Drink stopped a LOT of hurt. The Councilor referred me to a new Dr and they ran me into mew amazing drugs. I have to live on tablets each morning and night.

It's so difficult to talk about.

What do u want yo know?
Re: Bi-Polar  [message #48823 is a reply to message #48822] Fri, 01 February 2008 22:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
marc is currently offline  marc

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OK, this is nothing to be ashamed of..... most gay guys have issues and if they say they don't then more than likely they are in denial.

If the Dr. and his medication is helping then it is a good thing...

I would however recomend that you research the medications you are given... Knowledge is important especially when it comes to putting chemicals into your body.

One question though... Doen the druge come with one on one therapy? If noy then think about talking to a good therapist. Talking helps alot



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Re: Bi-Polar  [message #48825 is a reply to message #48823] Fri, 01 February 2008 23:14 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Bon, I have Bi-Polar disorder and PTSD. If you need any info on the meds I have been prescribed or any side-effects, you can e-mail me and I will tell you about my experiences with them. Also about the sucess and failures that went with them.

aqua



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Re: Bi-Polar  [message #48826 is a reply to message #48822] Fri, 01 February 2008 23:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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What you have is a distinct, diagnosable, ailment. It's a chemical imbalance in the brain that requires input of chemicals to balance you. It's not relly different from, say, diabetes. It just has crappy effects in moods and reactions to stuff.

It takes a while to get used to that thought, though



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Re: Bi-Polar  [message #48938 is a reply to message #48821] Thu, 07 February 2008 03:09 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Camy is currently offline  Camy

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timmy wrote:
> We have bi-polar people here.
>
> I have a question for you. Do you think bipolarity is one end of a scale, such the one end is "not at all" and the other end is "totally"?
>
> I suspect it may be, because I suspect that we are almost all of us not at the "not at all" end.

I agree with you, we're all on the scale at some point. Depression - whether mild or severe is part of human nature, as is the joy we all feel from time to time.

Quote from Wikipedia:
Bipolar disorder is not a single disorder, but a category of mood disorders defined by the presence of one or more episodes of abnormally elevated mood, clinically referred to as mania. Individuals who experience manic episodes also commonly experience depressive episodes or symptoms, or mixed episodes which present with features of both mania and depression. These episodes are normally separated by periods of normal mood, but in some patients, depression and mania may rapidly alternate, known as rapid cycling. The disorder has been subdivided into bipolar I, bipolar II and cyclothymia based on the type and severity of mood episodes experienced.

Also called bipolar affective disorder until recently, the current name is of fairly recent origin and refers to the cycling between high and low episodes; it has replaced the older term manic-depressive illness coined by Emil Kraepelin (1856-1926) in the late nineteenth century.[1] The new term is designed to be neutral, to avoid the stigma in the non-mental health community that comes from conflating "manic" and "depression."



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Re: Bi-Polar  [message #49207 is a reply to message #48938] Sat, 23 February 2008 03:42 Go to previous messageGo to next message
bon is currently offline  bon

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Can I just check this, REALLY?

Wikipedia is your point of reference? Thats a good place to look for info?

Ok. I must do some reading. NOT!

Bon
Re: Bi-Polar  [message #49209 is a reply to message #49207] Sat, 23 February 2008 04:14 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Senne is currently offline  Senne

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Hey Now,
Ive been depressed 6 years now i think i finally got it beat now that im off the lexapro....
depression or any mental ailment for that matter takes three things to cure
1.medicine
2.professional help{someone atleast a friend to chat with}
3.willpower to say to yourself i can beat this and deal with this
Re: Bi-Polar  [message #49216 is a reply to message #49207] Sat, 23 February 2008 11:03 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Where would you recommend instead?

David

[Updated on: Sat, 23 February 2008 11:04]

Re: Bi-Polar  [message #49218 is a reply to message #49207] Sat, 23 February 2008 11:55 Go to previous message
timmy

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Wikipedia is ok where the entries are cited. It acts as a reasonable first point to look, no more and no less. But it is not authoritative, not ever.



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