I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
I've looked at all your links and then some more and apart from people who blame their unfriendly feelings on their god there really are remarkably few homophobic opinions on there. I added some good answers of my own.
How many people unlike us go to such sites and say nothing? And how many like us go and add tolerant opinions? Maybe the site seems tolerant because it is the same tolerant people who think about relationships as if they were something that mattered.