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OK so i have been on 2 dates with this guy named Jerod. I really feel at easy around him which is unusual, cuz most guy i am seeing i am always wondering if they really like me or not. but any ways what should i do for the 3rd date....... the 1st we went bowling with most my friends, it was not planed that way but thats what happened he had a really good time and fit in with all my friends. the second date was more one on one we had some coffee and talked for a good hour and half. so i need some help with what i should do for the 3rd date...... i was kind of thinking dinner and a movie... and a passionate kiss after.... i have kissed him but only the good night kiss nothing good or any thing...... so some advice please......
Jayson;-D
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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Ask him what he would like to do most.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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I mean, you talked to him over coffee, right? Didn't you get to know him, and his likes and dislikes, and his interests, and things that don't interest him? If he goes crazy for ice hockey, take him to a game. If he likes live theater, take him to a play. But most important, what do the two of you have in common that you can build a friendship and a relationship around? It's more than just physical attractions and sex dude, really. You have to have stuff to do together when you put your clothes back on. But don't delay having sex either. It's possible to become too good a pair of friends too fast and then sex seems odd or wrong. Like sex might ruin the friendship or something. It's complex.
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timmy
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Great advice.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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This is not the first guy I have been with....... but yeah i know his likes and dislikes.... hell i can tell you what he does when he board...... be we never got to the subject of food..... which btw he asked me to dinner and a movie.... 
So say what you want
(You know I'm wasting all my time)
You've gotta mean it when you say what you want
(You're only safe when you're alone)
And everybody's on your mind
Saying anything to get you by
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