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This is what I'm currently thinking about.  [message #51075] Tue, 24 June 2008 11:37 Go to next message
Josh is currently offline  Josh

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Are we shielding eachtoher from our eyes. only time knows for sure. With all the romance going around these days, does it get boring? If there is any such 'passion' why does it die out over time? Loving someone isn't hard. Some of us choose not to, which is really fine, and some of us choose to love and end up getting our hearts broken. However, some are lucky and get to be with someone who genuinely 'loves' them.

We lock ourselves in cages in our minds, believing what we want, like children. We allow ourselves to be manipulated so easily, losing sense of reality. Trying our best, yet always ending in failure we grow cold and shut others away. Even though we want help, our hearts are frozen and we can't move on.

Looking for things to amuse ourselves, in that way we are like children. Teaching kids to be kind and gentle is what parents should do. Abuse in the home or anywhere is unforgivable. It only shows what kind of man you are. How would you look at yourself in the mirror?

Love does not happen over night. You don't just go up to someone and say "Hey babe, lets get out of here." cause that's just stupid. Yet, regretably it happens. Thousands of teen girls these days want to be pregnant cause they think they can have kids, and think they can handle that responsibility. So they dress sexy, more revealing then the average and try to pick up guys. Now there's nothing wrong with that, if they were older, but doing it at 15 years old is (in my view) messed up.There are so many other things to do with your time then wonder about adulthood at such a young age.

Anyway, these are some of the things that are currently on my mind. Post your thoughts if you want on the topic.

~Josh~



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Love who you want to.

~Josh~
Re: This is what I'm currently thinking about.  [message #51079 is a reply to message #51075] Tue, 24 June 2008 19:44 Go to previous message
acam is currently offline  acam

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Yes, Josh,

You are so right about the teen girls. They have no idea how unremitting the task of looking after babies is. And the consequence of trying to do it as a teenager is that you do it badly and the child doesn't get a fair chance.

And I see some of that in Bristol. Instead of a pension we have two little houses to rent and have been renting to unmarried mothers. They have such a hard time of it. They can't afford a car. They have to live on social security and the council pays the rent. So they are mostly confined to the house with the problem of small children and insufficient income to do anything much that's fun.

But if the father of the child can't help with money (or won't) what is the mother to do?

In the UK about a third of all our children are brought up in what the government officially calls 'poverty'. We've had this government for ten years and the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.

Society was persuaded that selfishness was good by Mrs Thatcher. Mr Blair and now Mr Brown just made it worse by taxing the poor and giving tax relief to the rich. (I'm told Mr Bush is as bad.)

Love,
Anthony
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