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Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52626] Wed, 27 August 2008 11:06 Go to next message
Fingolfin is currently offline  Fingolfin

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Timmy's thread "What I want to do with him..." made me think of which part of body I notcie first, what is important to me, and what is not...

Even when I'm behind someone who looks fine, I try to see the face, I need to see the shape, then eyes (oh, those eyes, they tell so much) and I love smiles (who doesn't?). Like you, Timmy, I really fancied blond, but now I find myself liking guys who are blond, brown, black/haired (like it's not that important anymore...). - taken from the thread mentioned above.

What do you notice, what do you like (and dislike)?

Marek



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Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52629 is a reply to message #52626] Wed, 27 August 2008 11:42 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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My head turns for a shock of blond hair. The face often disappoints. I like eyes. I like eyes that dance and sparkle. I forgive a lot of ugliness for dancing eyes.

I've never looked at trouser bulges. I don't care. It'll pump up ok whatever it looks like in a soggy state.

I like legs. Hard to describe, but long muscles, not sprinter's muscles, but athletic, toned, not chiseled.

I'm ok with beards or clean shaven. I can get past zits if I know the person pre-zit infestation.

Not keen on close cropped hair.

Happy with body hair or without.

The alleged highly desired "bubble butt" does little for me. I prefer sleek. I don't need one I can balance a beer glass on!



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Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52632 is a reply to message #52629] Wed, 27 August 2008 12:05 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Fingolfin is currently offline  Fingolfin

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After reading your reply I have to say, taht I have never been so tempted to post a pic of me before...

Here it is.

Me in Prague 2 years ago.

Marek

[Updated on: Wed, 27 August 2008 12:06]




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Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52633 is a reply to message #52632] Wed, 27 August 2008 12:07 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Fingolfin is currently offline  Fingolfin

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Problem here, Timmy. It seems that I can't submit picture. What have I done wrong? What should I do?

Marek



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Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52636 is a reply to message #52633] Wed, 27 August 2008 13:51 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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it may be too large. Format it to a decent size and 72dpi



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Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52637 is a reply to message #52626] Wed, 27 August 2008 14:00 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I normally look for the face first, as that tells you so much about a person's character. If they look sullen, that's a real turn-off. On the other hand, even an otherwise plain person can look wonderful if they have a warm and genuine smile.

On a purely physical level, there are some things I find, statistically speaking, that I'm more attracted to than others. I'm attracted more to shortish brown hair than any other type. Long hair is a turn-off. I don't mind some stubble but I prefer clean-shaven. I've said I notice bottoms and I also notice legs, though I'm not sure I could prescribe my 'perfect bottom'. I'm not attracted to frighteningly muscular bodies, and I'm not attracted to 'thin' either -- 'average' is fine. Age-wise, I'm attracted to 'younger-looking' but that doesn't always mean younger than me (I'm 24). I'd have no idea if that gives you a good idea or not! I generally find it rather awkward trying to explain what I'm attracted to, as it's so variable, and for any particular individual all the rules could easily be thrown out the window.

David
Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52639 is a reply to message #52636] Wed, 27 August 2008 14:20 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Thanks, Timmy.

Here is a pic of me on a trip to Prague.

Marek
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Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52641 is a reply to message #52639] Wed, 27 August 2008 16:49 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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w0ot!!! ;-D

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Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52642 is a reply to message #52639] Wed, 27 August 2008 19:55 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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How wonderfully normal you look!



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Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52644 is a reply to message #52639] Wed, 27 August 2008 20:04 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

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Marek, was this taken in front of Kafka's birthplace or is that the Karlsbrücke behind you?

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I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

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Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52646 is a reply to message #52626] Wed, 27 August 2008 20:17 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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When I'm boywatching it depends on my eye level as to what I look at first. If i see an attractive face I want to check out his package; if I see an attractive bulge, I immediately want to see his face. I'm not impressed with bubble butts, but prefer one with a modest outline, but that's secondary. Blond hair is always a great attraction despite blond(e) jokes, but I like other colours as well so long as the hair is well kempt, preferably shorter than longer. Few boys in long hair appear attractive to me. I'm not into beefcake or bears, but appreciate a sixpack on a slim and well proportioned boy with a hairless upper body. Two well defined nipples are the cherries on the cake. In many, but not all respects quite the opposite of me.

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N



I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52651 is a reply to message #52639] Wed, 27 August 2008 22:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Yes,
I like that Marek!

I hope it was all right to say so.

Love,
Anthony
Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52653 is a reply to message #52626] Wed, 27 August 2008 23:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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For me, it's not so much about shape as body language. Particularly with younger guys, there's something about a guy that can say "I'm determined to explore everything life has to offer me, even though it's pretty scary sometimes" that's a major turn-on.

Physically, I guess my "fantasy" type is lean and blond, though my real-life guys have tended to be shorter than me, chunky in build, and dark-haired. Probably something in me about keeping fantasies and realities separate!



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Re: Faces, bodies etc.  [message #52656 is a reply to message #52651] Thu, 28 August 2008 06:33 Go to previous message
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Thanks, Anthony, it's OK to say so. If I weren't ready for any type of comments I wouldn't post it, would I?
Are you sure, Paul, it is RAM I'm overheating Sad) Wink ???
Would you believe, Nigel, that I can't remember. Yesterday I was staring at the picture deciphering where the photo had been taken. No idea, though...
Wonderfully normal, I like that... I'm neither handsome nor terribly ugly, well, wonderfully normal.

Hugs

Marek



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