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Timmy's thread "What I want to do with him..." made me think of which part of body I notcie first, what is important to me, and what is not...
Even when I'm behind someone who looks fine, I try to see the face, I need to see the shape, then eyes (oh, those eyes, they tell so much) and I love smiles (who doesn't?). Like you, Timmy, I really fancied blond, but now I find myself liking guys who are blond, brown, black/haired (like it's not that important anymore...). - taken from the thread mentioned above.
What do you notice, what do you like (and dislike)?
Marek
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- Vincent Šikula, Slovak writer
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My head turns for a shock of blond hair. The face often disappoints. I like eyes. I like eyes that dance and sparkle. I forgive a lot of ugliness for dancing eyes.
I've never looked at trouser bulges. I don't care. It'll pump up ok whatever it looks like in a soggy state.
I like legs. Hard to describe, but long muscles, not sprinter's muscles, but athletic, toned, not chiseled.
I'm ok with beards or clean shaven. I can get past zits if I know the person pre-zit infestation.
Not keen on close cropped hair.
Happy with body hair or without.
The alleged highly desired "bubble butt" does little for me. I prefer sleek. I don't need one I can balance a beer glass on!
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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After reading your reply I have to say, taht I have never been so tempted to post a pic of me before...
Here it is.
Me in Prague 2 years ago.
Marek
[Updated on: Wed, 27 August 2008 12:06]
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Fingolfin
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Problem here, Timmy. It seems that I can't submit picture. What have I done wrong? What should I do?
Marek
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it may be too large. Format it to a decent size and 72dpi
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I normally look for the face first, as that tells you so much about a person's character. If they look sullen, that's a real turn-off. On the other hand, even an otherwise plain person can look wonderful if they have a warm and genuine smile.
On a purely physical level, there are some things I find, statistically speaking, that I'm more attracted to than others. I'm attracted more to shortish brown hair than any other type. Long hair is a turn-off. I don't mind some stubble but I prefer clean-shaven. I've said I notice bottoms and I also notice legs, though I'm not sure I could prescribe my 'perfect bottom'. I'm not attracted to frighteningly muscular bodies, and I'm not attracted to 'thin' either -- 'average' is fine. Age-wise, I'm attracted to 'younger-looking' but that doesn't always mean younger than me (I'm 24). I'd have no idea if that gives you a good idea or not! I generally find it rather awkward trying to explain what I'm attracted to, as it's so variable, and for any particular individual all the rules could easily be thrown out the window.
David
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Thanks, Timmy.
Here is a pic of me on a trip to Prague.
Marek
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w0ot!!! ;-D
Stop it mate, you're overheating my ram!
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How wonderfully normal you look!
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Marek, was this taken in front of Kafka's birthplace or is that the Karlsbrücke behind you?
Hugs
Nigel
I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.
…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
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When I'm boywatching it depends on my eye level as to what I look at first. If i see an attractive face I want to check out his package; if I see an attractive bulge, I immediately want to see his face. I'm not impressed with bubble butts, but prefer one with a modest outline, but that's secondary. Blond hair is always a great attraction despite blond(e) jokes, but I like other colours as well so long as the hair is well kempt, preferably shorter than longer. Few boys in long hair appear attractive to me. I'm not into beefcake or bears, but appreciate a sixpack on a slim and well proportioned boy with a hairless upper body. Two well defined nipples are the cherries on the cake. In many, but not all respects quite the opposite of me.
Hug
N
I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.
…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
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Yes,
I like that Marek!
I hope it was all right to say so.
Love,
Anthony
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For me, it's not so much about shape as body language. Particularly with younger guys, there's something about a guy that can say "I'm determined to explore everything life has to offer me, even though it's pretty scary sometimes" that's a major turn-on.
Physically, I guess my "fantasy" type is lean and blond, though my real-life guys have tended to be shorter than me, chunky in build, and dark-haired. Probably something in me about keeping fantasies and realities separate!
"The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral, begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy. ... Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night devoid of stars." Martin Luther King
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Thanks, Anthony, it's OK to say so. If I weren't ready for any type of comments I wouldn't post it, would I?
Are you sure, Paul, it is RAM I'm overheating ) ???
Would you believe, Nigel, that I can't remember. Yesterday I was staring at the picture deciphering where the photo had been taken. No idea, though...
Wonderfully normal, I like that... I'm neither handsome nor terribly ugly, well, wonderfully normal.
Hugs
Marek
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- Vincent Šikula, Slovak writer
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