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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
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There was a sex ed programme - odd topic, really. And penises were explained. A nice young man stood happily and demonstrated his flaccid one to the nation without getting erect or blushing. He had it pointed to and all the working parts explained. We saw how a foreskin works, where you pee through, what a frenulum is and also had a look at his testicles.
It was clinical and wholly unerotic.
Later I looked at porn online and saw penises not very different from his own and bodies not very different from his own. These were erotic.
I'm minded of an earlier thread where someone, Deej, perhaps, said "I am not attracted to an anus" or something similar. I had always considered prior to last night's show that I am attracted to penises, and though the penis to be beautiful. I am going to backtrack on that.
A penis is just a fleshy tube with some specialised nerve endings. A well proportioned one can be aesthetically pleasing, and an erect one can be an erotic sight if part of an attractive body and not physically abhorrent.
So what is it about porn that's attractive and "run of the mill" nakedness that is not?
And what is your view of a penis? Is it inherently attractive, or do other things have to be right before that is so?
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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unsui
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Dear Timmy,
I tried to watch a clip of that but the site I found it on only offered a .avi file that my version of RealPlayer refused to play - so I haven't seen it.
In Yahoo and Google groups I found ymna which is Young Men NAked and I find the pictures very attractive, whether the penis is erect or flaccid. I do agree with Michael that as it is capable of giving its owner such great pleasure it is a natural focus of attention - at least for someone who wants to be nice to other people.
Actually when the pictures are intended to be pornographic the model often has a completely off-putting facial expression that I think is intended to be a sort of lewd come-on. But, for example, many pictures of anal intercourse show those being the 'bottoms' with screwed up faces as if they were in pain.
And so I think it is naked and beautiful people that are attractive and when they are intended to be pornographic some of them are a turn off.
Love,
Anthony
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timmy wrote:
> And what is your view of a penis? Is it inherently attractive, or do other things have to be right before that is so?
I have seen possibly five or six penises in my entire life that I've considered visually very attractive - out of the many thousand of penises (between mixed changing rooms, nude beaches, and the odd bit of porn) that I've seen. A pretty dick is for me a rarity, though they definitely exist.
In general though, it isn't a penis that attracts me, but a guy. Even in porn, for example, facial expression and body language, and some appearance of genuinely enjoying what they are doing is important - probably why so much porn leaves me (literally) unmoved.
Conversely, even an unattractive or downright ugly dick can be pretty damn good when it's inside me, attached to a guy I care about.
"The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral, begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy. ... Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night devoid of stars." Martin Luther King
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Timmy wrote:
>And what is your view of a penis? Is it inherently attractive…?<
That question is equivalent of 'Is a dog attractive?' Dogs and penises come in many different shapes, colours and sizes. Some (dogs and dicks) I find extremely attractive. Some dicks I find aesthetically attractive, others sexually attractive and on a good day both. The same applies to scrotums (scrota?).
(Coincidentally I have written a short story touching on this subject which I shall submit in due course.)
Hugs
N
I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.
…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
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I realise that my previous post didn't answer the question "Do I find penises attractive?" and the answer is undoubtedly "Yes!".
If I saw someone naked I would cross the road to have a closer look. You could waylay me with pictures and maybe tempt me to touch if I got close enough. I really am attracted.
And porn isn't *more* attractive; some of it is unattractive whereas a penis on a nudist beach will always get my attention.
Love,
Anthony
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marc
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Registered: March 2003
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whats wrong with these?
Anteater
Bald-Headed Mouse
Baloney
Baloney Pony
Big Jim and The Twins
Blue-veined Throbber
Boner
Boneroni
Boss and His Two Helpers
Bush Whacker
Cavity Probe
Charles the Bald
Chub
Chubby
Crankshaft
Crotch Rocket
Diamond Cutter
Dick
Dipstick
Dong
Donut Holder
Dork
Fat Frank
Firm Worm
Flagpole
Fred
Gherkin
Gnarled Root of Love
Hammer
Hard Salami
Hard On
Hat Rack
Heat Seeking Moisture Missile
Horny
Hugen
Jackhammer
Jacktool
Jean Tent
Jimmy
Johnson
John Thomas (British)
Joystick
Kielbasa
Little Elvis
Louisville Slugger
Long Dong
Main Vein
Mallet
Manbone
Meat Whistle
Missile
Monkey
Morning Wood
Mr. Big
Mr. Blue Vein
Mr. Friendly
Mr. Happy
Muff Missile
Oblisk
Old One-Eye
Omar the Tent Maker
One Eyed Trouser Snake
One Eyed Whale
Pecker
Pecker Wood
Pedro
Pee/Piss Hard
Penisnake Looking for Cuntcealment
Pestle
Peter
Piledriver
Pitch a Tent
Poker
Pole
Prick
Prod
Pud
Purple Headed Meat Puppet
Purple Headed Warrior
Purple Helmeted Yogurt Thrower
Purple Lollipop (submitted by a woman!!!)
Pussy Plunger
Ram Charger
Ramrod
Randy
Red Lobster
Rock Formation
Rod
Rosy Red Reproductive Rod
Rudder (swimmers)
Salami
Salty Dog
Sausage
Schlong
Schmeegle
Schwanz (Yiddish)
Shaft
Skin Flute
Snotty
Spitfire
Spooge Gun
Sporting Some Wood
Spurm Gun
Stag
Stanley (The Power Drill)
Stickshift
Stiff Peter
Stiffy
Stout Warrior
Sylvan (woody)
Superdick (Dick of Steel)
Sword
Tallywhacker
Tentpole
The King's Iron (Stephen King)
Throbbing Python of Love (Robbin Williams)
Throb Knob
Tonsil Wrench
Toobsnake (ZZ Top!!!)
Toobsteak
Tool
Towel Rack
Trouser Trout
Trouser Worm
Twig and Berries
Turkey Baster
Uncle Jim and the Twins at Attention
Vein Laden Meatpipe
Wanker
Willy
Willy the Burping Worm
Womb Cannon
Womb Ferret
Wonger
Wonk Your Dong
Woodrow Wilson
Woody
Woody Johnson
Worm with a Nazi Helmet
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Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
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Why "Johnson"?
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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marc
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Registered: March 2003
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Why not?
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13800
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Well, What about "Simpson"? What I mean is to ask why it is a name for a penis.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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marc
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Needs to get a life! |
Registered: March 2003
Messages: 4729
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This list is historical
Not my own invention.
I will find out though.
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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marc
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Registered: March 2003
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Johnson is a popular term for the penis- made all the more popular by the infamous "Big Johnson" t-shirts. There is some speculation, but little hard evidence as to the etymology of the word.
Here are some of the possible origins:
* There is a town in Indiana called "Dick Johnson". It's not hard to get the association here.
* It is perhaps related to British slang John Thomas, which had the same meaning around 1863.
* R. G. Johnson made baseball bats in his Sebago Bat Company. He always burned 'R. G. Johnson' into his bats. The bats were referred to as "Johnson's" and since the penis somewhat resembles a baseball bat it might have been used as a euphemism.
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13800
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All sound plausible
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Oh man......Big Johnson T-shirts are hilarious.
If you stand for Freedom, but you wont stand for war, then you dont stand for anything worth fighting for.
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I thought Big Johnson had something to do with the Johnson Tool company.
If you stand for Freedom, but you wont stand for war, then you dont stand for anything worth fighting for.
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